- Jun 30, 2015
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Weird situation tonight. My daughter and son-in-law went on a date. My son-in-law's mom is visiting and helping with the newborns. She and I went to high school together and I had a crush on her back then. She was a year behind me in school. She ended up marrying a guy a year ahead of me in high school. Some stoner rich kid that I didn't like. They have been married ever since and their son and my daughter married.
So I was asked if I could come over and help the mom babysit.
We sat and talked for about three hours about things and she confided in me that she almost left her husband a couple of years ago. She found out he has had at least three affairs with various women, but since he didn't love any of them, she didn't think it was worth ending the marriage over.
She also said that they haven't been to church in years, haven't prayed together in years, and are basically just roommates. She said she still loves him and won't leave him because she is afraid of being alone and because she doesn't want her three grown sons to be hurt.
She is friends with my ex-wife on Facebook. Said she couldn't believe what she did to me.
I knew this woman's husband was an annoying and selfish creep. I knew she was a sweet and Christian woman. I had no idea the suffering she has gone through and continues to endure for the sake of honor.
She made no improper advances towards me and I gave no indication that I would welcome any such advances, so both of our reputations are intact. It was just a brutally honest and heartfelt discussion.
So, to answer the question posed in the thread title; I think most of the good women in my age range are still stuck in loveless and awful marriages.
So I was asked if I could come over and help the mom babysit.
We sat and talked for about three hours about things and she confided in me that she almost left her husband a couple of years ago. She found out he has had at least three affairs with various women, but since he didn't love any of them, she didn't think it was worth ending the marriage over.
She also said that they haven't been to church in years, haven't prayed together in years, and are basically just roommates. She said she still loves him and won't leave him because she is afraid of being alone and because she doesn't want her three grown sons to be hurt.
She is friends with my ex-wife on Facebook. Said she couldn't believe what she did to me.
I knew this woman's husband was an annoying and selfish creep. I knew she was a sweet and Christian woman. I had no idea the suffering she has gone through and continues to endure for the sake of honor.
She made no improper advances towards me and I gave no indication that I would welcome any such advances, so both of our reputations are intact. It was just a brutally honest and heartfelt discussion.
So, to answer the question posed in the thread title; I think most of the good women in my age range are still stuck in loveless and awful marriages.