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Okay, so that's a bit strong. But there's a serious question here.
At the moment I'm working in a context where the generation gap is very big. No one in this church is younger than my parents. And I'm finding some quite negative attitudes from some people, not because I'm a woman exactly, but because I have a young child and I'm not at home with her full time.
The first couple of times it came up I brushed it off as just one of those things, but it's become a bit of a theme and I'm starting to be concerned that it's a problem; both because their disapproval might inhibit their receiving my ministry, and because being aware of their disapproval might make me react badly or even want to avoid certain people. Today I just walked away from someone because I just didn't want another lecture, but then later I realised that I hadn't been very loving towards her at all.
But is there a solution to this? Assuming that (mostly) lovely old ladies aren't going to change their opinions about these things just because I'd like them to, do I just have to grin and bear it? Is there a better way to deal with it?
Anyone else had to work through something similar?
At the moment I'm working in a context where the generation gap is very big. No one in this church is younger than my parents. And I'm finding some quite negative attitudes from some people, not because I'm a woman exactly, but because I have a young child and I'm not at home with her full time.
The first couple of times it came up I brushed it off as just one of those things, but it's become a bit of a theme and I'm starting to be concerned that it's a problem; both because their disapproval might inhibit their receiving my ministry, and because being aware of their disapproval might make me react badly or even want to avoid certain people. Today I just walked away from someone because I just didn't want another lecture, but then later I realised that I hadn't been very loving towards her at all.
But is there a solution to this? Assuming that (mostly) lovely old ladies aren't going to change their opinions about these things just because I'd like them to, do I just have to grin and bear it? Is there a better way to deal with it?
Anyone else had to work through something similar?