My husband doesn't have a driver's license, so I do all the driving. And I've noticed that when we first meet new people (and being new in this city, we've been meeting a lot of new people lately), they often act surprised to see me driving instead of my husband, and they'll make comments about it. They'll say to me, with a surprised look, "Oh, you're the driver, are you?" Or to my husband, "Oh, you let your wife drive?"
I've also noticed that when people invite us somewhere we haven't been before, they will automatically turn to my husband and give him the directions, not me. My husband has to politely say, "Thanks, but you'd better tell my wife, because she'll be driving."
From people's reactions, it seems like it must be really uncommon for the wife to drive! And we don't just get surprised reactions when they find out I drive all the time, we get surprised reactions the first time someone sees me behind the wheel. As if they think a woman shouldn't drive at all (when she's with a man, of course).
And I'm not that observant, so I've never really noticed, amongst other couples, whether the wife ever drives or not, but my general impression is that it's usually the man in the driver's seat.
So, I'm wondering, in your life, who does most of the driving? Is it really that uncommon for the woman to drive when a couple goes places together?
I've also noticed that when people invite us somewhere we haven't been before, they will automatically turn to my husband and give him the directions, not me. My husband has to politely say, "Thanks, but you'd better tell my wife, because she'll be driving."
From people's reactions, it seems like it must be really uncommon for the wife to drive! And we don't just get surprised reactions when they find out I drive all the time, we get surprised reactions the first time someone sees me behind the wheel. As if they think a woman shouldn't drive at all (when she's with a man, of course).
And I'm not that observant, so I've never really noticed, amongst other couples, whether the wife ever drives or not, but my general impression is that it's usually the man in the driver's seat.
So, I'm wondering, in your life, who does most of the driving? Is it really that uncommon for the woman to drive when a couple goes places together?