Hello ,
Our marriage with my wife came from the adultery.
I had as affair with her while she was married and that resulted her
marriage dissolution and subsequent marriage to me.
After a year and a half she tells me that she's been eaten up by the
guilt for what she'd done and she wants a divorce now saying that we
live in a constant state of adultery. Throughout the whole situation
before our marriage and after I didn't lose my relationship with God
and although I understood the wrong at that time I prayed a lot
about it and gave it to the Lord. I am not trying to say that that
wasn't a sin or anyhow justify my actions but I have been staying in
touch with the Lord before we married and after and I spent much
time praying that the Lord forgive us and bless our marriage.
With my wife it's the opposite. Ever since that whole situation
happened she could no longer be intimate and open with the Lord and
she had a hard time praying by herself and was always reluctant when
I'd ask her to pray with me.
Now she says that I don't have a conscience and she even doubted if
I was really a born again Christian. My question is what is wrong
with me and my conscience. I did not feel that God abandoned me and
I enjoyed praying and fellowship with Him.
Please tell if my conscience condition is normal and if it's not
what should I do. That really bothers me right now especially when
my wife thinks the opposite and moreover wants to divorce me to make
things right as she puts it. Please help.
Our marriage with my wife came from the adultery.
I had as affair with her while she was married and that resulted her
marriage dissolution and subsequent marriage to me.
After a year and a half she tells me that she's been eaten up by the
guilt for what she'd done and she wants a divorce now saying that we
live in a constant state of adultery. Throughout the whole situation
before our marriage and after I didn't lose my relationship with God
and although I understood the wrong at that time I prayed a lot
about it and gave it to the Lord. I am not trying to say that that
wasn't a sin or anyhow justify my actions but I have been staying in
touch with the Lord before we married and after and I spent much
time praying that the Lord forgive us and bless our marriage.
With my wife it's the opposite. Ever since that whole situation
happened she could no longer be intimate and open with the Lord and
she had a hard time praying by herself and was always reluctant when
I'd ask her to pray with me.
Now she says that I don't have a conscience and she even doubted if
I was really a born again Christian. My question is what is wrong
with me and my conscience. I did not feel that God abandoned me and
I enjoyed praying and fellowship with Him.
Please tell if my conscience condition is normal and if it's not
what should I do. That really bothers me right now especially when
my wife thinks the opposite and moreover wants to divorce me to make
things right as she puts it. Please help.