Hmmmm...maybe I should have phrased it differently because a majority gave the response I gave including not not being unequally yoked but that wasn't the full issue for me. From the way I was seeing things I was wondering how could a person be strong in faith and consider dating and/or marrying and unbeliever in the first place? Wouldn't it be an indicator that you're not strong in your faith? To me it seems like a type of self deception.
I was trying to see if anybody else saw that with the question I asked...