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I'm fine with you arguing. Just others.. who make me rage.. lol.

My day has been alright thus far. Been pretty much playing the game all day. Taking a little break for dinner.

How was your day?

I don't want to argue. My head hurts. And we never do that anyway. *pinch

Good. Distractions have their place. :)

It was quiet. The medicine hasn't been effective. Bleh. But I'm doing well nonetheless.
 
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I don't want to argue. My head hurts. And we never do that anyway. *pinch

Good. Distractions have their place. :)

It was quiet. The medicine hasn't been effective. Bleh. But I'm doing well nonetheless.

Hmm.. I thought we argued once or twice? Although I believe it was pretty civil, lol. I am sorry to hear about your head, hope it gets better. Headaches can really ruin a day.

I certainly need a distraction right now.. in the midst of job hunting.. lol. Even if this fictional world I am retreating too is incredibly violent and depressing.. lol.

Although the game has it's more cheerful moments.

I just got done in the section where you visit a dinosaur/space museum with Joel.
 
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Many are cloaked.

Only because they are scared of being thought of as a bad person, though, and are honestly trying in the meantime. At least in some cases. While, yes, I imagine, some others who are cloaked do so maliciously, unfortunately.
 
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Hmm.. I thought we argued once or twice? Although I believe it was pretty civil, lol. I am sorry to hear about your head, hope it gets better. Headaches can really ruin a day.

Maybe during your black period. You were pigheaded. ;)

I certainly need a distraction right now.. in the midst of job hunting.. lol. Even if this fictional world I am retreating too is incredibly violent and depressing.. lol.

True. But the alternative is equally bothersome. So play.

You want me to join you eh? *lol
 
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Tenure doesn't always mean health or happiness.

I know, but I do find it hard to believe that they could in reality be miserable together if they were sweethearts for that long - longer than a lot of people date and then marry before divorcing, I'll bet - and only broke it off once in all that time for a few months, and apparently amicably so.
 
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Maybe during your black period. You were pigheaded. ;)

Maybe.. although I did form a lot of ideas that I am proud of and still incorporate during those days. Sometimes being pigheaded can produce real fruit. Although it's not good to live that way long term, lol.

True. But the alternative is equally bothersome. So play.

Yeah, plus fictional violence is fun. The game isn't so scary for me anymore either. I might be brave enough to play Resident Evil 2 again, lol. Not sure if you remember that conversation here.. lol.

You want me to join you eh? *lol

Sadly it's only one player. Not sure if it would be your type of game. A lot of progressive stuff in it. Like I said.. I think one of the playable characters is transgender.. although thus far I haven't heard it being confirmed. The game probably doesn't want to confirm it, but just treat her like a female throughout while giving subtle hints. Eh.. lol.
 
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Only because they are scared of being thought of as a bad person, though, and are honestly trying in the meantime. At least in some cases. While, yes, I imagine, some others who are cloaked do so maliciously, unfortunately.

I don't remember my age when I learned the lesson. But I recognize my limitations. I can't control what anyone thinks or feels. Those who know my heart understand my intentions. They know I'm coming from a good place. Those who don't believe what they want. But I won't worry. That's soul draining.
 
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certainly need a distraction right now.. in the midst of job hunting.. lol. Even if this fictional world I am retreating too is incredibly violent and depressing.. lol.

Not to be a gaming moralist preacher or anything, but, you sure it's a good idea to find a violent/depressing game right now to be retreating into in order to be distracted from the hardships of daily life?

.... maybe .... try something more along the lines of a cliched JRPG about cutesy preteen kids trying to save the world with syrupy sweet and romanticized ideals or something? ^-^
 
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. I might be brave enough to play Resident Evil 2 again, lol.

Okay, this is weird, Mehguy. I am apparently - at least situationally - a lot more averse to violence in simulation (in this case video games) than you seem to be, yet I'm the one who was never too "scared" to play Resident Evil 2? ^_^
 
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Not to be a gaming moralist preacher or anything, but, you sure it's a good idea to find a violent/depressing game right now to be retreating into in order to be distracted from the hardships of daily life.

.... maybe .... try something more along the lines of a cliched JRPG about cutesy preteen kids trying to save the world with syrupy sweet and romanticized ideals or something? ^-^

Lol, not sure if I can handle that. Tried playing Kingdom Hearts 3 but I had to turn it off.. lol. Also The Last Of Us 2 at least makes me feel better, that the world I live in isn't that bad compared to theirs. Lol.
 
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. Tried playing Kingdom Hearts 3 but I had to turn it off.. lol.

Oh, that's okay in this case, because the Kingdom Hearts games are stupid. Heyoooooo!!!


(Disclaimer: no offense intended to anyone here who may like Kingdom Hearts. You do you.)
 
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Okay, this is weird, Mehguy. I am apparently - at least situationally - a lot more averse to violence in simulation (in this case video games) than you seem to be, yet I'm the one who was never too "scared" to play Resident Evil 2? ^_^

Lol, it surprised me too. I remember playing Resident Evil 4 and not being so creeped out by it. Yet Resident Evil 2 is more unsettling and claustrophobic. The Japanese also know how to be extra creepy. Lol.
 
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Oh, that's okay in this case, because the Kingdom Hearts games are stupid. Heyoooooo!!!


(Disclaimer: no offense intended to anyone here who may like Kingdom Hearts. You do you.)

The story is convoluted. One major problem is the magic of Disney isn't quite reached with those games. The dialog is often very cringey. The original voice actors they get to reprise their roles often sound bored and not into it, lol.
 
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I know, but I do find it hard to believe that they could in reality be miserable together if they were sweethearts for that long - longer than a lot of people date and then marry before divorcing, I'll bet - and only broke it off once in all that time for a few months, and apparently amicably so.

Few men would carry a relationship that long without marriage. At some point they nail things down. Especially if she's their ideal.
 
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Maybe.. although I did form a lot of ideas that I am proud of and still incorporate during those days. Sometimes being pigheaded can produce real fruit. Although it's not good to live that way long term, lol.

Yes, you're in a good place and that's the point. You know where I was coming from. :)

Yeah, plus fictional violence is fun. The game isn't so scary for me anymore either. I might be brave enough to play Resident Evil 2 again, lol. Not sure if you remember that conversation here.. lol.

No I don't. Why are you afraid?

Sadly it's only one player. Not sure if it would be your type of game. A lot of progressive stuff in it.

I thought we agreed I'd avoid that to prevent weird ideas entering my head. *lol
 
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remember playing Resident Evil 4 and not being so creeped out by it.

It is sillier than previous RE games in many ways, definitely.

But at the same time, I certainly did jump a little once the hooded chainsaw guy first ever got a hold of me. Poor Leon thought he'd be on a pretty simple and straightforward search and rescue that day and be back in the U.S. before dinner, probably. .... And then the moment he met the first zombie in that creepy remote village, his day goes really South from there. ^_^
 
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Yes, you're in a good place and that's the point. You know where I was coming from. :)

Thanks.

No I don't. Why are you afraid?

That game is pretty creepy and morbid. You have to make sure every shot counts. I also found the game pretty challenging.

I thought we agreed I'd avoid that to prevent weird ideas entering my head. *lol

Lol, this made me laugh out loud. You don't want to play as a female character with hulk arms and hands? Lol.
 
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It is sillier than previous RE games in many ways, definitely.

But at the same time, I certainly did jump a little once the hooded chainsaw guy first ever got a hold of me. Poor Leon thought he'd be on a pretty simple and straightforward search and rescue that day and be back in the U.S. before dinner, probably. .... And then the moment he met the first zombie in that creepy remote village, his day goes really South from there. ^_^

Sadly I never finished that game. A puzzle segment left me frustrated and I moved on to other games. Although I would say the game is extremely good and probably a 10 out of 10 for me. Just need to go back and play it. Also with older consoles it can add to the creep factor with lower quality audio fidelity. Lol.

It's also more open. Which is probably why it doesn't freak me out the same as Resident Evil 2 did, lol.
 
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That game is pretty creepy and morbid. You have to make sure every shot counts. I also found the game pretty challenging.

Too much work. Next!

Lol, this made me laugh out loud. You don't want to play as a female character with hulk arms and hands? Lol.

Ugh... I'll be spouting woke idioms and incurring your ire. *laughs
 
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