What's on your mind? (35)

[Strider1002]

How many previous sexual partners can a potential significant other have before it becomes too many for you? Someone on another CF subforum suggested that we all have a numerical limit. Like 1 might be okay, but 15 would be a deal breaker, or something along those lines.

This is a foreign way of thinking for me. Although I see 0 as ideal, and even reasonable for that matter, there doesn't seem to be a number beyond which a good match ceases to be a good match. Other factors are more important. For instance, how her motivations and past decisions influence her life today, her attitude, whether her actions would otherwise give me a reason to not trust her etc. I'm well aware that it's possible to live an honest life according to a different set of values, but it would be hard for me to get past a history of cheating. This isn't a numbers game for me. Dozens with honesty vs. 1 with cheating, and I'd prefer the woman who had dozens with honesty. Likewise, although I think 0 is ideal, waiting isn't enough to turn a Negative Nancy or someone with equally undesirable traits into one I'd want to spend the rest of my life with. So ultimately, the specific number is quite low on my list of things I look for. I'd like to think that it would neither make nor break the relationship in and of itself.

0 would be ideal. But I have learned that God renews everything, including trust. So, I don't expect my future wife will have A LOT of former partners, but I forgive her if she does.

 

[Neve]

Fiddlesticks. I can't find my high-heeled boots for tonight. I'm positive that I packed them in my suitcase when I returned from California last winter. I know that they are somewhere.....if I can't find them, then I'll wear the nude JS heels instead, but I really wanted to wear the boots.

 

[Keri]

It's funny how I notice things. But part of me wishes that I didn't.
Sometimes I long for a mountain woman life. See how long before I go mad/starve/freeze.
Meh.

 

[Neve]

My mother is looking for the boots at their house in California. I would like to know where they are.

 

[Going Merry]

im full of vegetables and oranges

 

[Neve]

They're in California.

 

[Going Merry]

i ate too much
my stomach is twice the size as it should be

 

[Squeakers]

They're in California.

Aw, that totally stinks. ...

On my mind...I've been having some fantastically realistic dreams...but as soon as I jump out of bed, I forget them. I used to be great at remembering my dreams...what's wrong with meh?!

 

[Going Merry]

Aw, that totally stinks. ...

On my mind...I've been having some fantastically realistic dreams...but as soon as I jump out of bed, I forget them. I used to be great at remembering my dreams...what's wrong with meh?!

Maybe they aren't dreams, but you actually are the grey tiger and really do save people when you get into bed. Just you save everyone while sleep walking/saving

 

[Squeakers]

Maybe they aren't dreams, but you actually are the grey tiger and really do save people when you get into bed. Just you save everyone while sleep walking/saving

But that'd be totally awkward if a few of my dreams were real/me just sleep-walking...I would've been married by now, had a green and purple polka dotted Jeep Wrangler, and my own Lego city. ... ...

 

[Strider1002]

Lego city? Count me in.

 

[Squeakers]

Lego city? Count me in.

Sweetness!

It was a beautiful city, btw...in my dream. It was set in the mountains, complete with bridges over waterfalls, and tons of platforms/treehouses in the trees.

 

[Strider1002]

If Legos are just for kids, then I never wanna grow up...

 

[Squeakers]

If Legos are just for kids, then I never wanna grow up...

Daha! I don't care if they're just for kids...I'll still play with 'em even if I'm 80.

 

[Strider1002]

Daha! I don't care if they're just for kids...I'll still play with 'em even if I'm 80.

Oh no, I don't play with them... I build complex architectural structures. Yeah.

 

[Saucy]

Mmm pizza was delish

 

[HotRhymez]

Am I the only one that isn't a huge fan of the teams in this year's Super Bowl? I mean..I love the Super Bowl, and watch it every year..but this year I'm not a huge supporter of either team..I guess I'll go with San Francisco..since they have Randy Moss, and he used to be on the Vikings years ago..

 

[m.a.r.X]

My date tonight.

wow ! Good luck, have fun

yeah thats really not a bike for slow speeds. You dont even have to race on a track. i know a few ppl that go to the track but they dont race they just ride for fun.

Roger that.
I would have to run it in 2nd or 3rd gear for life

 

[Squeakers]

Oh no, I don't play with them... I build complex architectural structures. Yeah.

Is there a difference?

Mmm pizza was delish

Oh yeah.

 

[Strider1002]

Is there a difference?

No...