They are not controversial to me specifically but to society in general. Both in and out of Christianity LGBTQ+ and women's rights cause many varying views and nothing in my studies has caused me to change my thinking. I have done extensive studies on this in the past and will continue to do so but I do not feel that a traditionally conservative opposition is appropriate from either my biblical studies or background of personal experience
Ah! this is the reconciliation of how the World views things versus how Christ views those same things.
Let me put it this way:
You accepted Christ into your heart. This is good!
Now what you have to do is to take a self survey of your beliefs and practices in the light of how Christ views them, and then go about changing your life in the areas that God shows you that need to be changed.
It won't happen over night, but little by little, He will point out to you through either Scripture or through a message that what you used to think or do wasn't lining up with how He thinks of the same thing. And if you're listening, He will also tell you why it is the right thing.
Yes, it's important to know why something is either right or wrong, because that is how you will build your Christian life. That is what will give you the motivation to keep on striving even when things get difficult.
Essentially it's like looking at a road map of your previous life, and noticing that when you look at the road map of your current life, there are new things, new ideas, new thoughts and ways of observing what is happening that are different than they were in your old life.
Pay very close attention to that!
Write down in a journal what is different (e.g. "I once was lost, but now I'm found," etc.) and keep on writing down those new discoveries.
What you're going to find out is that there will be a drastic difference between what you once thought, and what God is showing you now that will in time make a great difference in your life.
Your job is two-fold:
1. God will show you what you used to believe, and He will show you what is true.
2. You will have to choose which one you will do/believe from now on.
He will slowly but thoroughly go over your whole life, al the things you did, the choices you made, etc. and show you what a better choice would have been in that case.
Remember these too, because you just might have to confront the same thing again, until you learn what the right choice is, and until you have the courage to do what is right.
Best Wishes!!