Yes, this seems to be a test for many.
Some of these people, during their bearing, discover that their broken heart of loss was of their own making. That is, that what they have lost is their secret investment of dependency, on what they have lost, to make them feel okay. While the loss is not accepted they will remain not okay. But once it is accepted, they feel okay again. It is the truth of their loss which heals their own broken heart.
If they knew this truth before the loss, then the loss would have been bearable. In fact, the acceptance of loss can turn into no-loss. Instead of loss, it becomes a deep gratitude for having met such a person in their life here on earth.
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