As I read this thread I am filled with joy
that...
... I was not saved by a denomination or sect;
... I was not saved by a creed of a statement of faith formulated by a small group of people (usually men)
... I was saved by the grace of God, who drew me to himself through Jesus Christ, and gave me the faith to believe, and continues to supply me with the necessary faith that it is He who keeps me, regardless of my many failings - I cannot hold onto him, but I am convinced that he holds me, and my 52 year experience is that he has never let go
... when He drew me to himself He made me a part of His spiritual body, and he nourishes me there both through his word (the scriptures) and in fellowship with other membes of his body - I do not
need to be a formal, registered "member" of any organised church or denomination to remain "saved" because he made me a member of his body. (Even if I
choose to be a member for other practical reasons.)
... I can find fellow believers in (probably) all christian denominations, because the Holy Spirit is not a respector of the boundaries we set up between us - Jesus saved me for relationship for community, not for division and dissention. The essential core of this community is the common faith in the work Jesus did through his death and resurrection. I do not need a checklist of all potential items of disagreement to avoid friendship - I am called to love even my enemies with whom I have
nothing in common except a need for God's Grace and Love.
... God can give me grace (and I earnestly seek this grace) to appreciate the richness of diversity in fellow-believers who do find it important to attach themselves formally to a church of denomination. I regret that so many new denominations have grown through divisiveness, but I see the grace and power of God that has countered this division with a plethora of different modes and forms of worship - from silence, to praise with drums, cymbals and all manner of musical instruments, from unstructured gatherings to highly ritualised services. Different people, having different personalities, backgrounds, and preferences can find places where they can praise and worship their common Lord in the way that they find most natural and satisfying - realising at the same time, that we all need the Holy Spirit's intervension and "interpretation" to express our hearts' deepest thoughts to God.
... I do not have a religion, but a relationship with my Lord, my Saviour, my rôle model, my Goal, as well as with my Heavenly Father and the Holy Spirit; through this relationship I also am brought into community within which I can grow and contribute to the growth of others using the gifts God gave me
... the Counsellor has infinite patience with me in guiding me to more constructive and life-giving relationships (I have not been so good in this) and has shown me that I do not have a patent on "the truth" - rather he can teach me through his written Word, his people regardless of affiliation, and even through people who deny that he exists. My past is full of destructive negativism, bad judgement, cynism, fear and criticism, but the Spirit is working to transform me.
... that it is not me that determines who is right and who is wrong - I am not the judge, even if he does give the gift of discernment, and may ask me to approach others in a spirit of humility to open themselves to the Spirit's intervention where I have evidence that sin is being committed.
... that NONE of the above gives me right to boast, nor does it show I am better than anyone else. Nor does it give me the right to judge others regarding their convictions about "belonging" to this denomination or that. Everything in my life that may be good and positive is due entirely to the Lord Jesus working in me through the Holy Spirit. Everthing that is destructive, negative and wrong comes from within me myself.
Sword of the Lord, know that
it is Jesus that keeps those that the Father entrusted to him. He will let you know if you are working against him! You are showing evidence that you are open to this guidance by your concern. God bless you.