It's "golabki" in Polish, but the exact same stuff. Do you like yours with sour cream or tomato sauce?Zgadzam sie, bardzo atrakcyjne! Jedzenie jest rowniez dobre!
(I originally said "Polish," because my grandparents were Polish, until I remembered that my username is the Slovak variation of the word, because that's what my Slovak grandpa called them!)
In polish they're called something like gulompki, but they've always been halubki to my family. (It's like arguing with a Ukrainian whether they're "pierogi" or "veryneki.") Eastern Europe, amirite or amirite?
It's "golabki" in Polish, but the exact same stuff. Do you like yours with sour cream or tomato sauce?
I mean the terminology is bad. The truth of the state of such people is that they suffer from a particular passion, an unnatural attraction to the same sex, in spite of the clear biological and anthropological purposes of sex - let alone the mysteries we do NOT know about as to why God created two sexes.
Thus, the most accurate language of our time is not to say "I am/He is gay" but to say "I/He suffer(s) from same-sex attraction." once that is said, the true nature of the problem is brought out "of the closet".
So no one is "rejecting" you here, we are telling you that this is a passion that one must renounce and struggle against, just as the alcoholic or inappropriate content addict or man who can't control his anger must struggle with their passions. The one thing you can't do is say "My passion is NOT a passion; it is a good and beautiful thing". Then you would have to be corrected. We all have things standing between us and God. None of us are better than you. If that's clear, then you are welcome!
People who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender should just come to church if they are interested. Don't worry about changing before you come to Christ and his church. If you desire to be part of the Body of Christ, which means repentance for all who come to Christ, the Holy Spirit will help you through the grace given in the Holy Mysteries. We need grace, encounter with God.
M.
In any discussion, you must distinguish between "being gay" as in "experiencing sexual desire for the same sex" and as in "acting on those desires". That's one reason why "being gay" is such terrible language. It is at the heart of such confusion.
TBO means that acting on those desires is incompatible with Orthodoxy. Becoming Orthodox means taking up a difficult and possibly lifelong struggle AGAINST those desires.
Does anybody not get that?
as Fr Hopko once wisely said, "Lady Gaga may have been born that way, but by God's grace she doesn't need to stay that way."
That is TOO HILARIOUS! I must've missed that! LOL!
It becomes necessary every ten seconds in any intelligent conversation about this phenomenon.It is awkward, but I think there can be good reasons to use both types of phrasing, depending on the context.
It is not the only time we use that kind of construction - we talk about being an addict even if someone is not actually using drugs, or even things like being a diabetic or other medical conditions. None of these are ontological categories, and they do not define a persons reality absolutly, but they can define it in a limited but important way for the people involved. And not defining it, straight out, can cause other problems for those people.
I think the best answer is just to clarify what we mean when it becomes necessary.
The very terms are false, RKO.If this is a thread derailment, ignore it, but do you guys believe that Homosexuality can be changed? If so can heterosexuality be changed? I am completely in agreement with the Church loving the gay and expecting them to control their desires and not act on them. I have a real hard time believing that I can be internally changed from hetero to gay, and for that reason, vice versa.
If this is a thread derailment, ignore it, but do you guys believe that Homosexuality can be changed? If so can heterosexuality be changed? I am completely in agreement with the Church loving the gay and expecting them to control their desires and not act on them. I have a real hard time believing that I can be internally changed from hetero to gay, and for that reason, vice versa.
If this is a thread derailment, ignore it, but do you guys believe that Homosexuality can be changed? If so can heterosexuality be changed? I am completely in agreement with the Church loving the gay and expecting them to control their desires and not act on them. I have a real hard time believing that I can be internally changed from hetero to gay, and for that reason, vice versa.
It becomes necessary every ten seconds in any intelligent conversation about this phenomenon.
If "gay" were an accurate term describing what exactly they are, as "alcoholic" clearly means "a person who is addicted to alcohol" then I could agree with what you are saying.
But it is not even THAT honest. It is meant to definitely imply "We are friendly, smiling, joyful" as a rider clause to "we want physical erotic relations with the same sex" while using a word that has throughout the history of the English language meant only the former until my own childhood, using false language to promote the morality of the act.
Unless we state the truth, that they suffer from a passion, that the passion is negative and not positive, we cannot uphold truth in speaking. They have co-opted the language; we must take it back. By force, as determinedly as they repeated their lies, we must repeat the truth.
The very terms are false, RKO.
There is normal sexual desire of a man for a woman, and vice-versa, and then there is perverted desire, desire turned from its natural object. They are NOT on equal footing, any more than the person who wishes to stuff food up their nose is on the same footing with a person who has the common sense and desire to eat using the mouth. The terms you use place the two on an equal footing and so are false. One is normal, though it must be confined to marriage, and the other is highly abnormal.
Whether a person can be cured of such an insane ailment is dubious. Can an alcoholic be cured? Many, evidently, cannot, and must perforce abstain from alcohol for life, or go down the drain. So I propose no earthly cure, unless God grant it to them. (Note how the X-Men films successfully pushed their views.)
If a person comes to realize that such desires ought to be rejected and struggled against, they need Christ, plain and simple. We cannot "cure" them; it is delusion to think that on our own power we can do anything. It is only by the grace of God that, on occasion, a person ceases suffering from this passion. But AFAIK it is not common.
If this is a thread derailment, ignore it, but do you guys believe that Homosexuality can be changed? If so can heterosexuality be changed? I am completely in agreement with the Church loving the gay and expecting them to control their desires and not act on them. I have a real hard time believing that I can be internally changed from hetero to gay, and for that reason, vice versa.
Whether a person can be cured of such an insane ailment is dubious. Can an alcoholic be cured? Many, evidently, cannot, and must perforce abstain from alcohol for life, or go down the drain. So I propose no earthly cure, unless God grant it to them. (Note how the X-Men films successfully pushed their views.)
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I love "Wreck It Ralph". Anyone know what I'm talking about?