What happened to Christians being loving and kind?

[NW82]

Anytime I post anything here I get nothing but condescension, judging and assumptions. No support love or understanding. Why?

 

[geiroffenberg]

not sure, but a christianity that is based upon the unwritten common understanding that "we who gather in this building every sunday are gods chosen because we believe the right doctrine and tithe and everyone else goes to hell" are of course not nice ppl LOL. Jesus never did anything like that haha.

I say that as a believer in the gospel for many decades and someone who believes christianity as a role to play, not against it.

Also some spiritual people may seem harsh for a reason, but thatas a whole other matter. You know Jesus took out the whip a few times, it happens! But thats probably not whats been happening in your case.

 

[NW82]

Yeah well I'm alone 95% of the time and I feel like I want to die. I've only started two or three threads and I've basically just gotten negativity, condescension, assumptions....anything but support. I've asked why does God want me to suffer and I was met with nothing but assumptions. No one really wants to know another's story and offer practical advice. Telling someone who is alone and wants to die due to the crushing loneliness...you don't tell them to get over it or learn to like it or anything of the sort...and yet that's the only answer I get.

Loneliness Can Kill, Literally | HuffPost

 

[Neogaia777]

Anytime I post anything here I get nothing but condescension, judging and assumptions. No support love or understanding. Why?

Many would not be that way "face to face", but, for some reason online, people seem to be different...

Sorry...

I am trying to be the same on here as I am in person, but, it does take "work" and "time"...

People can be very cold and cruel online, and I think it is because they know they will not have to ever face them, face to face, and are really "cowards" and two faced...

My prayers are with you...

God Bless!

 

[Neogaia777]

Yeah well I'm alone 95% of the time and I feel like I want to die. I've only started two or three threads and I've basically just gotten negativity, condescension, assumptions....anything but support. I've asked why does God want me to suffer and I was met with nothing but assumptions. No one really wants to know another's story and offer practical advice. Telling someone who is alone and wants to die due to the crushing loneliness...you don't tell them to get over it or learn to like it or anything of the sort...and yet that's the only answer I get.

Loneliness Can Kill, Literally | HuffPost

Do you get online and be mean to people because of this, or act very differently than you would ever act face to face...?

Many do, and I'm not saying that "you" do, just that, and to point out that many do do that, and it is really a "problem with them" and not you...

You can PM me anytime, I've had to adjust to being alone most of time, and have struggled with suicide myself, and mental problems and issues as well, on top of that, so, if you want to, you can "try me on" by PMing me anytime...

God Bless!

 

[salt-n-light]

Anytime I post anything here I get nothing but condescension, judging and assumptions. No support love or understanding. Why?

Sin. Pray for them, because they are having the same struggles with flesh like you and me.

If you're looking to find someone that you feel more comfortable to talk with, I'm here PM me.

God bless you, do not be discouraged

 

[A_Thinker]

Yeah well I'm alone 95% of the time and I feel like I want to die. I've only started two or three threads and I've basically just gotten negativity, condescension, assumptions....anything but support. I've asked why does God want me to suffer and I was met with nothing but assumptions. No one really wants to know another's story and offer practical advice. Telling someone who is alone and wants to die due to the crushing loneliness...you don't tell them to get over it or learn to like it or anything of the sort...and yet that's the only answer I get.

Loneliness Can Kill, Literally | HuffPost

Are you attending a church right now ?

The cure for lonliness is to establish new relationships with people (i.e. friends, family, co-workers, church members, etc.). Get out among people ... and make new connections. Find a place of service that teams you with other people. Pray that God will bring you into contact with those who will connect with you.

There are many women out there who are looking for a good man to love them. Be that good man.

 

[Lucian Hodoboc]

Anytime I post anything here I get nothing but condescension, judging and assumptions. No support love or understanding. Why?

Do you go to other online forums besides CF?

 

[Goatee]

You will never be alone. Not here or in life as God is with you. Ok, you may feel lonely but sometimes one has to carry on trudging through the desert while praying and being strong in your faith and outlook however hard it feels.

God bless you.

 

[Suicidegirl1988]

God was not nice or positive , he said if you eat of tree in the middle of garden you will die , however Satan was very positive about eating it and even told Eve she will become like God .

 

[mukk_in]

Anytime I post anything here I get nothing but condescension, judging and assumptions. No support love or understanding. Why?

Sorry to hear that my friend. Be assured that God loves you .

 

[stuart lawrence]

Anytime I post anything here I get nothing but condescension, judging and assumptions. No support love or understanding. Why?

Head knowledge, knowing much of the literal letter of scripture does not mean love must be the result, often just the opposite

 

[Adstar]

Anytime I post anything here I get nothing but condescension, judging and assumptions. No support love or understanding. Why?

Not sure.. But this is the first time i have seen your name NW82??

Is this your first accout? Or have you come here and been banned before?

Anyway if you have some genuine points i am willing to consider them via the message system..

 

[christianforumsuser]

If you want to hear sweet words I might not have any to offer today. But I also might not kick you just because it makes me feel better and self-righteous.
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Find the remission of sin. Consider the heart and spirit. You need God's Word.
If everything were like a Paradise in the world maybe people wouldn't seek God. In fact maybe so many people consider their life so great and themselves strong. Such height must be slippery isn't it. Anyways everyone who has sin needs to repent don't they. But do you know true repentance and remission? Do you believe?

 

[faroukfarouk]

Good to focus on what the Lord Jesus Himself said to those who love Him and trust Him:

John 14.1-6; John 14.27.