Women were not forbidden to teach or prophesy except when the Church was ASSEMBLED. In other words, when the Church came together for worship, the women were commanded to remain silent. Paul says this command was from the Lord
No he doesn't, and this doesn't make sense.
Why would women be allowed to speak and prophesy outside of a church gathering but not when Christians came together? Are you saying that God had different rules for different occasions?
Where does it say that God commanded?
If it did say that, then God would be breaking his own word today.
In John 17:28, Jesus said that belief in him was to be attained through the words of the apostles. You do not seem to be willing to accept this.
Of course I believe that what the Apostles taught was true and from the Lord - but not that every single word they uttered was taken literally, nor that it should be done so by us today.
As well as preaching the Gospel and teaching the faith, Paul and others wrote letters to churches to answer the specific problems they had and to answer their questions. Some of the letters contain personal remarks and are not doctrine for everyone.
For example, when speaking of false teachers, Paul said "I wish those agitators would go and castrate themselves", Galatians 5:12. The false teachers wouldn't have done this, but how many Galatians said, "Oh, this is God's command through the mouth of the apostle; we'd better find some false teachers and make them obey or do the job for them"? Or how many Christians today believe they are called to go and castrate JWs or other cult leaders and members, because the Apostle Paul said so?
Paul also asked Timothy to bring his cloak and his scrolls to him - these are words spoken through an Apostle; yet how many times have you been to Carpus to look for Paul's belongings so that you can return them to him, 2 Timothy 4:13?
Paul told Timothy to stop drinking water and to drink some wine for his frequent illnesses? How many time have you told sick people, and alcoholics, that they should drink wine to cure their illnesses because the Apostle Paul said so? I don't drink - and I'm not starting because this is what Paul said to Timothy.
In Luke 10:16, Jesus told those whom he sent out in his name, "He who hears you hears Me, he who rejects you rejects Me, and he who rejects Me rejects Him who sent Me.” Those who will not accept the word of Paul are rejection the word of the Lord.
Accepting the word of Paul and believing it has to be applied to us today, are two very different things.
I believe and accept that Paul wrote "I wish all men were as I am" - i.e unmarried. That doesn't mean that I believe that marriage is wrong.
This teaching is very clear
No, it's not.
Unless you are saying that all those who believe differently from you are all wrong and deliberately claiming to misunderstand it so that they can ignore and disobey it?
The problem is not with the ambiguity of scripture.
The problem is with how people interpret Scripture.
The Bible does not contradict itself. There were prophetesses in the OT - women who gave God's word to men. In one case, the male priests chose to consult a woman, 2 Kings 22:14. Deborah was also a judge over all Israel.
In the NT, Jesus allowed women to take his word to men, and chose a woman to be the 1st witness to the resurrection.
Woman played a big part in the life of the early church; they were in the upper room before Pentecost, Acts of the Apostles 1:14. Lydia and others were at the place of prayer when Paul went to Philippi. He converted, and then stayed with them, and the Philippian church, which may have been co-founded by women, had deaconesses, Philippians 4:2. Paul also had a number of female co-workers, who he commended highly, see Romans 16.
Nowhere do we read in the NT that women were a problem, that if women spoke God's word they were to be ignored, that those who allowed women to minister were false teachers.
Yet some people look at a verse in one of the last letters that Paul ever wrote, seem to say, "that's it; women speakers forbidden" and ignore the rest of the NT.
As to women who disregard this prohibition, yes, they are willful and disobedient.
In your opinion.
Women who take upon them selves roles of preachers or pastors
I can assure you that I did not "take the role of preacher upon myself".
If I did not believe that God had called me to do it, there's no way I would be doing it. Spend hours reading, writing sermons and going to training days when I could be doing other things? No thanks.
So you're saying that your sisters in Christ are deliberately disobeying the Lord we serve, and choosing to oppose and reject his word?
and the Lord will deal with them in his own time as he sees fit.
I am pretty sure that in most cases the words they/we will hear will be "well done good and faithful servants."
What if you are wrong and the Lord asks you why you have oppressed his daughters and tried to discourage them from fulfilling their calling? Your answer will be ......?
Must go - have a sermon to finish.