I love that this question is being addressed. My husband and I have often discussed it in our household. Everyone here has given such nice responses, but how are they practically applied to every day life?
I mean, I truly wish we were given instructions before getting married. I know alot of religions give marriage classes, unfortunately not all. But even those classes don't explain how to properly function within a marriage. I mean what is the roles of a husband and what are the roles of a wife? It's certainly not the 50s anymore where the definition is the wife cleans the house and takes care of the kids while the husband goes out to work is it? And there is a thread on here about who takes care of the finances, and most of them claim the women is the one taking care of the funds. So does that imply that in many households that women is taking care of the household, the kids, and the money, wouldn't that also imply she's kinda in charge. So then is the husband's sole role his job and occassionally helping out when asked? Where's the proper division of the household responsibilities? I guess the proper answer is you're suppose to discuss it with your spouse and come up with an answer that is agreeable between both parties, but if you're searching for what is Biblically proper, what would the answer be?
Are these stupid questions? I'm 36 years old and I still don't know the answer to how the household is suppose to run properly according to how the Bible says. I've truly struggled with this question for years. I want to do what's pleasing to God and to my husband, but it's really rather confusing. Everyone seems to have a different definition as to what a women's role is and what a man's role is. I see some households and I think "that women does everything!" or "that man is really a wonderful husband helping out his wife so much". I understand how confused people get when they read husbands are suppose to the "head of the household" because that interprets differently to most people on a practical day to day life basis. I mean the head of a company isn't doing the grunt work. So does that mean the women does the grunt work while the husband manages?
Any insight would be appreciated.