In what ways have YOU avoided gossip in the past? I know we slip and give in to gossip from time to time whether it's gossiping about others or listening & responding to it
Gossip is huge. It's everywhere. It's potentially easier to avoid gossip when in a crowd because you aren't being directly spoken to. But what if it's just one-on-one. How do you avoid gossip?
Sometimes I say things like:
"oh well, what can you do?"
or
"I'm sure they had a reason for feeling/saying/thinking/behaving in such a way "[which is *understandably* met with a negative response in which I am deemed as someone who can't empathize with them]. See, I like to think about both sides of the story. Mentally, I can understand why the person is feeling the way they feel towards another. And visa versa. But offering your view of opening their perspective on the other person's viewpoint can be seen as negative.
Empathy is important.
Anyway, how do YOU deal with/avoid gossip especially when it's just you and 1 other person?
Gossip is huge. It's everywhere. It's potentially easier to avoid gossip when in a crowd because you aren't being directly spoken to. But what if it's just one-on-one. How do you avoid gossip?
Sometimes I say things like:
"oh well, what can you do?"
or
"I'm sure they had a reason for feeling/saying/thinking/behaving in such a way "[which is *understandably* met with a negative response in which I am deemed as someone who can't empathize with them]. See, I like to think about both sides of the story. Mentally, I can understand why the person is feeling the way they feel towards another. And visa versa. But offering your view of opening their perspective on the other person's viewpoint can be seen as negative.
Empathy is important.
Anyway, how do YOU deal with/avoid gossip especially when it's just you and 1 other person?
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