My husband spoke to one of the churches Pastors today. They had a lengthy discussion where they were each able to share their beliefs. And even though the Pastor was in agreement with my husbands views and saw that he was pretty solid theologically (and even though they were very happy with the clowning he'd done for childrens church last week and had been totally excited about having him clown on a monthly basis and were excited about us going and doing clown ministry on a summer mission trip) the Pastor said that they couldn't look past the smoking issue and suggested we look for another church. That's the info on it I have so far. My husband had to get back to work and wasn't able to give me the rest of the details. We took yesterday off to catch up on sleep and to think and pray about what to do next. I'm not sure what we're going to do yet... but I think we're considering looking at some other Baptist churches (we do know that not all Baptist churches are like this, legalist and all), my husband likes the Awanas program and the only churches here offering that are Baptist. We may also try one more Assemblies of God. We've pretty much exhausted the non-denoms here... the ones we haven't been too either had websites where they stated their beliefs and we knew that wasn't where we'd want to go and the ones that I did drive by's on and knew they were way smaller than what we are wanting (we want a church big enough that it will have a strong childrens and youth program, but not so big that we get lost). I wish there was a Sovereign Grace (PDI) church here... our beliefs match theirs almost perfectly, acceptions being too minor to worry about. I got this book a while back "the 60-second Guide to Denominations"... it's pretty helpful when looking at what a denomination believes as far as the basics are concerned.... the Sovereign Grace church was actually recommended to me here, and after reading about them in the book I could see we'd be a fit there for sure... then I checked their website and found out there are no SG churches anywhere near us Oh well... so the search continues.