Some of my younger guitar students recently came to me and asked to play songs from the movie "Bibi und Tina" (German movie for kids - I haven´t watched it; just saw some of the music video clips, from which it appeared to be a typical harmless girlie movie - horses, friendship among girls, first encounters with having a crush on a boy etc.; no age limit).
The songs are quite ok, musically, and the kids have fun playing them. I´m always happy to find stuff that will reliably motivate them.
So yesterday I suggested to another 10yo girl student: "Wouldn´t you like to learn one of the songs from "Bibi und Tina?". There was a short happy glance in her eyes, but then she got very earnest and said: "Ummm, I´d love to, but you know, my parents...we are Christians, and we are not supposed to watch stuff like that." (I knew already they were Christians because we had done one or two worship songs before on her request, and, well, because pretty much everyone here is Christian anyway, just not fundy-style.)
Me "Oh, I didn´t know there was something particular un-Christian about this movie..."
Her: "There´s a witch in it, and that´s why we - as Christians - are not supposed to watch it."
I´m not trying to make a point here. I guess all parents have their ideologies and their ideas what to shelter their kids from.
It´s just that it somewhat saddened me to see this little girl finding herself under the obligation to justify something that she obviously wasn´t prepared to justify, and to see her so torn apart between my tempting offer and those restrictions that she herself didn´t even understand.
The songs are quite ok, musically, and the kids have fun playing them. I´m always happy to find stuff that will reliably motivate them.
So yesterday I suggested to another 10yo girl student: "Wouldn´t you like to learn one of the songs from "Bibi und Tina?". There was a short happy glance in her eyes, but then she got very earnest and said: "Ummm, I´d love to, but you know, my parents...we are Christians, and we are not supposed to watch stuff like that." (I knew already they were Christians because we had done one or two worship songs before on her request, and, well, because pretty much everyone here is Christian anyway, just not fundy-style.)
Me "Oh, I didn´t know there was something particular un-Christian about this movie..."
Her: "There´s a witch in it, and that´s why we - as Christians - are not supposed to watch it."
I´m not trying to make a point here. I guess all parents have their ideologies and their ideas what to shelter their kids from.
It´s just that it somewhat saddened me to see this little girl finding herself under the obligation to justify something that she obviously wasn´t prepared to justify, and to see her so torn apart between my tempting offer and those restrictions that she herself didn´t even understand.