I wouldn't hold a blog as the truth, not without something behind it. Especially regarding the Catholic Church.
I'm sorry but this counts as a massive reading comprehension fail.
Read the part I quoted in my post.
The part with links to surveys and polls.
Your facts are not facts, who are you to see inside people's hearts? You have no idea what 'they' think.
In polls and surveys, people are asked questions about what they do and what they believe.
I know what people think when they tell us what they think.
It's not that difficult to find out what people think.
The truth is that God gave us a way to not have 26 children, which was your whole point to begin with.
That wasn't my point. Maybe it was yours, I really don't know. But it wasn't mine.
You said that BC allowed women to not die so young and to not die due to having so many children.
You're confusing me with Athene, I think.
I said 1)that it did no such thing, that medical advancement did that,
You mean medical advances like hormonal birth control pills? Yep.
and 2)there's no reason for women to use ABC and that there's a form of family planning that doesn't use contraception and is as effective, if not more so, and doesn't involve hormones,
:o I'm sorry but... are you for real? That's just contrary to any actual facts. The rhythm method is the
LEAST effective way of preventing pregnancy.
Birth Control Chart
and doesn't subvert the will of God for what sex is for, which is procreative, primarily, and unitive, secondarily.
The big gaping hole in the logic is still there, RoJ. There's no difference between the purpose of using NFP and the purpose of using the pill.
Both are used so a couple can have sex without getting pregnant.
If it's subverting the will of God to use BC, then it's subverting the will of God to use NFP, too.
Then you went into the couple's state of mind and said that BC users and NFP users have the same state of mind.
I said they "can" have the same state of mind.
I've shown you that they don't,
Um... No, no you absolutely didn't show me any such thing. Stating it as an unsupported fact is not, in fact, "showing" me anything. Indeed, when asked for proof of your assertion you provided............. nada. (And then proceeded to demand proof of one of my assertions, which I gave you.)
Methinks someone needs to go back and reread this conversation.
when NFP is done the way it's supposed to be done.
What does this even mean? If NFP is done "the way it's supposed to be done"?
So, NFP is supposed to be done in a way that isn't intended to prevent pregnancy while still having sex?
You're going to have to connect the dots a little here, RoJ.
BC users want to have sex whenever they want to, with no consequences. NFP users do not.
So.... it's okay to want to have sex without getting pregnant as long as at least some of the time you don't have sex when you
really want to?
That's what it's sounding like. It's okay to not want kids as long as you do a little penance a few times a month to make up for it.