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Naturally there have always been men (and women) wh have physically abused their wives (and husbands)
But that isn't what I'm talking about here. I'm talking about all of this crap that's been rising since the mid 50s called feminism where basically any woman that wants to live for God and her husband is "opressed" and every Godly man that wants to run a tight household is considered a controlling, sexist, a d vindictive "monster".
Dont believe me? Do any google for "what is controlling behavior." 99.9% of the websites will blame Godly men who want to live for God and call them controllinf,sexist, and vindictive "monsters" (as if women could never have this seemingly new quality of behavior)
I'm asking this because all of my grandparents grew up this way. My moms mother raised nine kids while my grandfather took care of a farm and then later worked on furnaces to support his wife and household. Ditto my dads parents.
When his grandkids grew up he asked us all how we were going to support our wives and family since most of us were 18+ and had no jobs.
My parents nor my aunts and uncles never considered this behavior abnormal. And trust me a lot of the "controlling" features that apparently exist today? My grandfather DEFINITELY had. Dont even get me started with how he treated his wife when he was drunk. Yet he and my grandmother were married for almost 60 years before my grandfather passed away nine years ago. They would STILL be married if they were still alive.
My grandmother never considered herself abused or oppressed. She never considered her life wasted she and many women of that age just wanted to live for God and wanted to live Godly lives. A trait that seems to be completely absent today.
Is my interpretation of the past correct? Was there no such thing as "controlling" behavior 100+ years ago? And if there was, why did so many marriages last back then and why do we have the divorce epidemic of the last 30 years or so? In my life I've seen many divorces most by women who thought they were "oppressed". My grandfather used to tell me back in the 20s hardly any people got divorced and marriages lasted.
Obviously divorces have happened since the days of Noah and before that but has controlling behavior really been a thing in the past? And why all of a sudden during Christs return becoming nearer and nearer have we thought so?
Also am I correct that a majority of the world believed in Chrisy between the year 1,000 until around the last hundred years or so around when feminism began? Not to mention the legalization of abortion crisis? And now full term abortion crisis?
Not trying to start a flame war Im just genuinely interested as to why the world has forgotten about God and why so many Godly women have a abandoned God. If... I'm even right about all this stuff anyway. Maybe I'm not. That's what we're discussing in a humane way.
But that isn't what I'm talking about here. I'm talking about all of this crap that's been rising since the mid 50s called feminism where basically any woman that wants to live for God and her husband is "opressed" and every Godly man that wants to run a tight household is considered a controlling, sexist, a d vindictive "monster".
Dont believe me? Do any google for "what is controlling behavior." 99.9% of the websites will blame Godly men who want to live for God and call them controllinf,sexist, and vindictive "monsters" (as if women could never have this seemingly new quality of behavior)
I'm asking this because all of my grandparents grew up this way. My moms mother raised nine kids while my grandfather took care of a farm and then later worked on furnaces to support his wife and household. Ditto my dads parents.
When his grandkids grew up he asked us all how we were going to support our wives and family since most of us were 18+ and had no jobs.
My parents nor my aunts and uncles never considered this behavior abnormal. And trust me a lot of the "controlling" features that apparently exist today? My grandfather DEFINITELY had. Dont even get me started with how he treated his wife when he was drunk. Yet he and my grandmother were married for almost 60 years before my grandfather passed away nine years ago. They would STILL be married if they were still alive.
My grandmother never considered herself abused or oppressed. She never considered her life wasted she and many women of that age just wanted to live for God and wanted to live Godly lives. A trait that seems to be completely absent today.
Is my interpretation of the past correct? Was there no such thing as "controlling" behavior 100+ years ago? And if there was, why did so many marriages last back then and why do we have the divorce epidemic of the last 30 years or so? In my life I've seen many divorces most by women who thought they were "oppressed". My grandfather used to tell me back in the 20s hardly any people got divorced and marriages lasted.
Obviously divorces have happened since the days of Noah and before that but has controlling behavior really been a thing in the past? And why all of a sudden during Christs return becoming nearer and nearer have we thought so?
Also am I correct that a majority of the world believed in Chrisy between the year 1,000 until around the last hundred years or so around when feminism began? Not to mention the legalization of abortion crisis? And now full term abortion crisis?
Not trying to start a flame war Im just genuinely interested as to why the world has forgotten about God and why so many Godly women have a abandoned God. If... I'm even right about all this stuff anyway. Maybe I'm not. That's what we're discussing in a humane way.
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