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Unsettled Relationship because of Baby

Discussion in 'Requests for Christian Advice' started by lezter, Mar 5, 2021.

  1. lezter

    lezter JESUS IS KING

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    I have an unsettled Relationship, I already have a baby from an unwanted Relationship, We are not married. We did everything to fix our relationship because of our baby but it always ends up sinning. I don't love her anymore. I hate sin, there's no Peace in our relationship and it always hinders me to serve God. honestly I want to end everything, but my burden is my daughter. I love her so much. I want to teach her everything about Jesus. My heart really wants a settlement about issues, I think we are not fit for each other, I can't help her, and she can't help me. for other info, we are not living together, I always visit my children twice a week.

    Please I need advice.
     
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  2. bèlla

    bèlla ⭐️ Supporter

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    I'm sorry you're hurting and the relationship isn't working. That doesn't prevent you from being a father to your daughter.

    Companionship is a serious undertaking. There must be mutual investment and commitment. Worthy partners are generous and willing to give of themselves for the other's benefit. The gains and challenges are weathered by both.

    Their heart and sincerity compels the same in return. You can't force someone to be loving or supportive. If the connection is strained and hopeless, it's unlikely to change unless both are willing.

    Don't settle for a half life or half love. Hold out for someone who deserves your hand. In the meantime, speak to your ex and try to work out an agreement about the child. Talk to an attorney too. Legal aid can help. But try to get her on board if possible.

    Keep the discussion centered on the child and your mutual want for her welfare. Affirm her qualities as a mother to minimize disagreements. Hopefully, she'll work with you.

    Post a prayer request on the Prayer Wall and allow others to stand with you. God bless.

    Yours in His Service,

    ~bella
     
  3. lezter

    lezter JESUS IS KING

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    Thank you so much. it gives me an idea. Praise God for your life sister.
     
  4. OldWiseGuy

    OldWiseGuy Wake me when it's soup. Supporter

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    If the baby is from another relationship who is caring for the baby?
     
  5. lezter

    lezter JESUS IS KING

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    actually, our daughter is already going 3 years old, she caries our baby, I'm working and visit them twice a week.
     
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  6. OldWiseGuy

    OldWiseGuy Wake me when it's soup. Supporter

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    So there is only one woman involved?
     
  7. ReesePiece23

    ReesePiece23 The Peanut Buttery Member.

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    At the moment, there's only room for ONE female in your life, and that's your daughter.

    She's all I'd personally think about. No girl would place above her.
     
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  8. bèlla

    bèlla ⭐️ Supporter

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    My pleasure. Good luck. :)

    ~bella
     
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