One of the very first groups I spent time with when I became hot for God was the Baptist Student Ministry. I wasnt with them for long because I already committed to a different Bible study group, and a embarrassing moment I had with couple of my friends in that group tainted how this group saw me and me being comfortable with this ministry.
I also used to attend church that I considered my primary group of friends, having made a few best friends and going on a couple of mission trips together in the process. After 2 years of being a part of this group, however, things took a turn for the worse because I blew a gasket trying to adhere to all of this church's beliefs and events that were hosted, occasionally I would be encouraged or commended for doing so, but most often I pretty much conformed to the crowd for the sake of conforming, without reward. If I did anything that was considered out of the norm, particularly hold differing beliefs from the rest of church (especially with sexual matters), demonstrated vulnerability, or even just try to be myself, I would receive criticism or shunning, including on social media. My family and I even discovered that this place was a quasi-cult. It wasn't quite as severe as some cults, but it was still known for hurting its members.
Several of these friends from the said groups I still hang out with and think highly of, but most of them have stopped talking to me or fell out of contact with me as I stopped hanging out with these groups. Even people that I previously viewed as best friends have unfollowed me.
I want to continue cleaning up my social media accounts, as this has improved my self-esteem issues and anxiety, but don't want to go overboard. Should I unfriend/unfollow the remaining people from BS/church groups that I have since removed myself from? What should I do?
I also used to attend church that I considered my primary group of friends, having made a few best friends and going on a couple of mission trips together in the process. After 2 years of being a part of this group, however, things took a turn for the worse because I blew a gasket trying to adhere to all of this church's beliefs and events that were hosted, occasionally I would be encouraged or commended for doing so, but most often I pretty much conformed to the crowd for the sake of conforming, without reward. If I did anything that was considered out of the norm, particularly hold differing beliefs from the rest of church (especially with sexual matters), demonstrated vulnerability, or even just try to be myself, I would receive criticism or shunning, including on social media. My family and I even discovered that this place was a quasi-cult. It wasn't quite as severe as some cults, but it was still known for hurting its members.
Several of these friends from the said groups I still hang out with and think highly of, but most of them have stopped talking to me or fell out of contact with me as I stopped hanging out with these groups. Even people that I previously viewed as best friends have unfollowed me.
I want to continue cleaning up my social media accounts, as this has improved my self-esteem issues and anxiety, but don't want to go overboard. Should I unfriend/unfollow the remaining people from BS/church groups that I have since removed myself from? What should I do?