It's all about understanding the other person's position. Only when you know your opponent can you not only understand him but his position at well. Only then do I consider actual beneficial conversation able to take place. I had the benefeit of being raised in "freethinker" atmosphere, and it's taught me to try and look behind the argument and into the person. "Why would a person say ___, unless he/she's concern was ___?"
This brings me to my point: So many times, an argument on Evolution/Creation would go in a circle, simply because the debaters couldn't see what the other person was trying to say, so confusion naturally breeds. I admit, I've not always followed my own "creed", but recent events have showed me that it's imperitive that I do so.
Surely someone has a similar philosphy, would anyone add anything?
This brings me to my point: So many times, an argument on Evolution/Creation would go in a circle, simply because the debaters couldn't see what the other person was trying to say, so confusion naturally breeds. I admit, I've not always followed my own "creed", but recent events have showed me that it's imperitive that I do so.
Surely someone has a similar philosphy, would anyone add anything?