I was thinking this morning about two things centering around a passage in the New Testament, Colossians 3. I won't quote it. You can look it up if you want.
The first part is about putting away behavior that is not loving as a new creation in Christ.
I felt really bad afterwards when over the weekend I engaged in some very nasty talk with a friend. The world says it is the way real men are supposed to talk, but I was convicted and felt dirty afterwards. Of course I knew better, but wanted to fit in.
It was yet another lesson for me. There are things I should not do and behaviors I should not engage in because they are not loving. Ugly things said even in jest are not loving. There are other things mentioned too if you read the passage.
But then there is the flip side which is the side I have struggled with much more.
I got thrown into another conversation over the weekend. This time a religious conversation. Instead of it producing love, compassion, kindness, humility, etc... It turned into something else. I ended up being judged and felt condemned because I didn't subscribe to the same exact beliefs of this other Christian.
So I experienced two things over the weekend and have felt wounded by both.
One was me giving into worldly behavior in the name of friendliness. The other was a difference of belief that took two Christians who should have been focused on loving each other and left at least one feeling slightly wounded from it.
The balance I believe is walking in love without compromising the Biblical definition of love.
I'm not very good at it, but I want to be.
Any thoughts or advice for me?
The first part is about putting away behavior that is not loving as a new creation in Christ.
I felt really bad afterwards when over the weekend I engaged in some very nasty talk with a friend. The world says it is the way real men are supposed to talk, but I was convicted and felt dirty afterwards. Of course I knew better, but wanted to fit in.
It was yet another lesson for me. There are things I should not do and behaviors I should not engage in because they are not loving. Ugly things said even in jest are not loving. There are other things mentioned too if you read the passage.
But then there is the flip side which is the side I have struggled with much more.
I got thrown into another conversation over the weekend. This time a religious conversation. Instead of it producing love, compassion, kindness, humility, etc... It turned into something else. I ended up being judged and felt condemned because I didn't subscribe to the same exact beliefs of this other Christian.
So I experienced two things over the weekend and have felt wounded by both.
One was me giving into worldly behavior in the name of friendliness. The other was a difference of belief that took two Christians who should have been focused on loving each other and left at least one feeling slightly wounded from it.
The balance I believe is walking in love without compromising the Biblical definition of love.
I'm not very good at it, but I want to be.
Any thoughts or advice for me?
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