- Mar 29, 2020
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- Single
Hope everyone is doing alright during the current state of affairs.
As the title suggests, I am weary about getting married in this day and age. I'm a college student and I've always wanted to have kids, but growing up with divorced parents/single mother as well as seeing all of the propaganda and hatred of tradition has made me feel that it is being made improbable to sustain a marriage where I am the head of the family, and my wife wouldn't be tempted to use the court system/power, etc.
I don't mean to be negative and I post here for guidance as to how to avoid this situation to occur. I know I need to join a church and go to other places where good women are (not just for that sake but you know what I mean). I have a lot of improving to do myself.
Am I justified in feeling this way? I am good with girls, I just have found my past flings were searching for something different than I am. As Christians, what things can we acknowledge to give hope in this situation? Are Christian women becoming further and fewer? Should I hold out for a woman with strong faith? Thanks.
As the title suggests, I am weary about getting married in this day and age. I'm a college student and I've always wanted to have kids, but growing up with divorced parents/single mother as well as seeing all of the propaganda and hatred of tradition has made me feel that it is being made improbable to sustain a marriage where I am the head of the family, and my wife wouldn't be tempted to use the court system/power, etc.
I don't mean to be negative and I post here for guidance as to how to avoid this situation to occur. I know I need to join a church and go to other places where good women are (not just for that sake but you know what I mean). I have a lot of improving to do myself.
Am I justified in feeling this way? I am good with girls, I just have found my past flings were searching for something different than I am. As Christians, what things can we acknowledge to give hope in this situation? Are Christian women becoming further and fewer? Should I hold out for a woman with strong faith? Thanks.