Sure. But these are only my opinions, received from pulpits and from reading. I'm no theologian.
#1. Did David die spiritually at the time of when he committed his sins of adultery and murder?
For a time, I think he did. David committed those sins while under the Mosaic law, so he deserved death. Yet he was still in the presence of God and still had the Holy Spirit because of Psalm 51:11. And he received a special dispensation from God, transmitted through Nathan, so that he wasn't killed for his deeds. God didn't give up on him, but forgave and restored him. I see that as an example of the love of God.
I believe David did not receive spiritual life or forgiveness again until he confessed of his sin to the Lord in Psalms 51. Yes, the Spirit was upon Him as a part of the anointing as king, but I do not believe David was saved spiritually until he confessed of his sin. God was holding out mercy for David to confess of his sin.
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#2. Do you believe a Christian can die while committing a grievous sin like lying, lusting, and or hating, etc. and still be saved?
Likely not, I think. However, have they been practicing love? Love does cover a multitude of sins. But I don't know how many.
I believe this would be in regards to past sins. While a believer can be forgiven spiritually of their sins via by confessing of them to Jesus (1 John 1:9 cf 1 John 2:1, Proverbs 28:13), sometimes there may be physical consequences. If we love, love in some cases help to cover these bad consequences. It does not exactly mean we have forgiveness if we just love others. For if we are doing sinful things, and we do not confess and we think that loving others instead of confessing sin is the remedy to deal with sin, then I do not think we are on the right track. Jesus condemned those who did wonderful works in his name and yet He told them to depart from Him because they worked iniquity (or sin) (Matthew 7:23).
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#3. Do you believe that we are initially and ultimately saved by God's grace through faith (Justification), and that Sanctification (God doing the good work in us to live holy, put away sin, and to be fruitful) is a part of the salvation process?
Heh, it sounds as if you're asking me whether I'm Orthodox or Protestant. I'm Protestant. I believe our salvation is instantaneous. But also that we do have to continue with Christ (as in John 15) and keep the faith firm to the end. That doesn't mean we can't sin...the blood of Christ remains available to us always...but that we can't turn away to others. I think there's an analogy from the Old Testament that is relevant: the northern tribes were eventually abandoned by God, but not because of sins since there were laws in place to handle them. It was because they abandoned him for other gods. Likewise, we now have the blood of Christ to handle sins, but we can't abandon God.
I am neither Orthodox, or Protestant, but I just believe what the Bible says. I am a Trinitarian Sola Scriptura Non-denominational Christian.
In a way you already admitted in a small way that Sanctification plays a part in salvation. You said love covers a multitude of sins. You obviously believe true love manifests itself in doing works of love, right?
"and one of you says to them, “Depart in peace, be warmed and filled,” but you do not give them the things which are needed for the body, what does it profit?" (James 2:16) (NKJV).
"And, behold, a certain lawyer stood up, and tempted him, saying, Master, what shall I do to inherit eternal life? He said unto him, What is written in the law? how readest thou? And he answering said, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy strength, and with all thy mind; and thy neighbour as thyself. And he said unto him, Thou hast answered right: this do, and thou shalt live. But he, willing to justify himself, said unto Jesus, And who is my neighbour?
And Jesus answering said, A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, which stripped him of his raiment, and wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead. And by chance there came down a certain priest that way: and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. And likewise a Levite, when he was at the place, came and looked on him, and passed by on the other side. But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came where he was: and when he saw him, he had compassion on him, And went to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring in oil and wine, and set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him. And on the morrow when he departed, he took out two pence, and gave them to the host, and said unto him, Take care of him; and whatsoever thou spendest more, when I come again, I will repay thee. Which now of these three, thinkest thou, was neighbour unto him that fell among the thieves? And he said, He that shewed mercy on him. Then said Jesus unto him, Go, and do thou likewise." (Luke 10:25-37).
If you don't believe Sanctification does not play a part in our salvation, then how do you explain Romans 8:13, 2 Thessalonians 2:13, and Acts of the Apostles 3:23?
How do you explain John 15:1-6, Titus 1:16, and James 2:24?
When I was new in my faith, I used to think I was Protestant, but God talked to my heart not to associate with any denominational name. After reading the words of Martin Luther that say, "
No sin will separate us from the Lamb, even though we commit fornication and murder a thousand times a day" I chose to distance myself even more from Protestantism. In fact, Martin Luther also said many other things that clearly show he was in error.
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#4. If a Christian sins, do they lose salvation right away or they only in danger of losing salvation?
Likely only in danger, imo. God isn't lying in wait for us, looking to pounce on us when we're guilty...that's what the devil would do. On the contrary, God disciplines us. Parents don't discipline their children when they've done right, but when they've done wrong. We're not booted out of the family when we sin, and we're not abandoned when we go astray.
I agree that they are in danger and God is going to do everything in His power to chastise them and or to turn them back (if they are ultimately pure of heart and not seeking to justify sin as a mindset or way of life), but that does not mean such a person is not abiding in spiritual death in the meantime while they are in unconfessed grievous sin. I believe the Parable of the Prodigal Son makes it clear that when the prodigal son came home to the father and sought forgiveness with him, he was said to be "dead" and now he is "alive again." (See: Luke 15:11-32). I believe the parable is speaking in spiritual terms. The prodigal son was dead spiritually when he was spending his inheritance on prostitutes, and he became alive again spiritually when he came back home to his father and sought forgiveness with Him. Jesus is our Everlasting Father because one day he will resurrect us after His likeness.
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#5. What is the remedy for a Christian that does stumble into sin on occasion?
Confession and repentance. And also being forgiving to others, so we don't share the fate of the unforgiving servant in Matthew 18.
I agree that we need to confess and forsake sin to have continued salvation.
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Paul spends some time talking about our conscience and I see a place for it. My conscience doesn't bother me if I go over the speed limit a little. So I don't consider that sin for me. But my conscience once struck me deeply when I drove past a school bus that had its loading lights on because I wasn't paying enough attention. That was sin for me.
"Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God. Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves." (Romans 13:1-2).
Traffic laws are a part of the governing authorities. If we resist these laws, we are resisting the governing authorities. Governing authorities are placed into power by God, so if we resist them, we are resisting God in a manner of speaking. Granted, I think the context is speaking more of rebelling against the government (When that government is not telling you to violate God's laws). But the point here is that the traffic laws are a part of our obedience to God. But as you said, you do not consider it sin if you speed a little. I don't consider going over the speed limit a grievous sin like say "murder," but it is still a sin or a violation of the law of the land (that was put into power by God). Obedience to the traffic laws can in one sense be a reflection of our faith towards God.
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And someone whose conscience forbids them from eating meat can sin by eating some, even though it breaks no laws of God. I think it all gets pretty personal.
Matters of what kind of food we can eat is usually dealing with a person still being hung up in regards to the Old Testament Law of Moses in some way. Some may not eat certain foods because they think they are extremely unhealthy and they don't want to harm their temple or body. Dietary laws of the OT are no longer in effect anymore. But it can be a matter of conscience today (Which is different than say the traffic laws). Traffic laws are not optional if we drive in traffic. There are consequences (possibly even death of oneself and or others) if we do not obey the traffic laws.
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I think God forgives and overlooks a lot of things, perhaps for no other reason than he loves us and it's his good pleasure to give us the kingdom. For example, here's Solomon:
"Good sense makes a man slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense."
I think that's how God treats us. It's his prerogative. I think he gives us more post-conversion grace than I sense when I read some of the OP's posts. I think we can continue with confidence to draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.
I agree that God can give believers lots of grace, but I believe this is for the saint whom He knows will turn out to be good in the end. They are the kind of saint who turns out to be pure of heart, and they will not ultimately seek to justify sin or believe they will always be a slave to sin in this life, etc. They seek to overcome grievous sin and to live for the Lord and to lead others into paths of righteousness and not a path that turns God's grace into a license for immorality.
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This is a really wordy post, for me. Btw, I've picked this up from multiple pulpits, including Calvinist, Arminian, and some in between. My current church is halfway Calvinist, which is kind of odd because I'm not one. But they have a good youth program and even a K12 school for my children, so that's where I landed.
I believe all 5 points of Calvinism are unbiblical. I believe Calvinism helped to spread Eternal Security and or the "sin and still be saved" type belief we see today. While Calvinism appears to teach holy living, this is not always so when you dig beneath the surface in what it really teaches.
John MacArthur (A Calvinist and promoter of Lordship Salvation) also teaches that a believer can commit suicide and still be saved.
He says, I quote: "At the trial, MacArthur, 45, is seeking to clarify his church’s teaching on suicide. “It’s not only a sin, it’s illegal,” he says. “
But we teach that even if a believer takes his own life, the Lord will still receive him into His presence.”
Source:
Fundamentalist Clergymen Face Charges of 'Malpractice' When a Parishioner Turns to Suicide
John MacArthur says that a person can take the mark of the beast and they can still be saved afterwards. Listen to this audio clip by him here:
https://www.evangelicaloutreach.org/audio/macarthur-take-mark.mp3
John MacArthur says, "..
sin does not result in spiritual death for the believer ... (The MacArthur Study Bible, p. 1927, comment on James 1:15)"
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Puritans / Presbyterians / Calvinists" have a dark history of putting to death witches, fornicators, and those who taught false teachings. They were not much into laughing, or in enjoying things, either. Of course this not how Calvinism exists today, but my experience with Calvinists on various Christian forums has not been so nice. Granted, there may be a few nice ones out there. But I have not really encountered them. This does not mean that Calvinists cannot do good and beneficial things for the Lord. Gotquestions is a Calvinist website that really has a lot of good articles except on the topic of "Sin and Salvation." Both "Time Changer," and "Play the Flute" are amazing Christian films created and directed by a Calvinist. I did not originally know the director was a Calvinist until I talked with him personally on the phone. In fact, if you were to tell me that the director was Calvinist, I would have said you were nuts. No Calvinist teaching is pushed in these films at all, and they are some of the best Christian films out there that inspires a person to want to accept the Lord, and to follow Jesus.
While these truly are amazing Christian films, a word of caution in following the director in everything he says, writes, or puts forth as entertainment in the future. For he is a Calvinist, and I don't believe Calvinism is even remotely biblical. If he keeps with the same kind of entertainment, I think a believer will turn out to be fine, but if pushes his Calvinism in the future more publicly, then I probably not recommend his movies anymore. I believe Calvinism is one of the core fundamental problems that we see in the church today.