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Rabbi:Nearly everybody outside the MJ movement. Even many INSIDE it (i.e., the UMJC).
You were asking Steve who was telling him not to worship like a Jew. His reply was an exaggeration about UMJC, but true enough.
The UMJC has begun to develop a new position regarding gentile worship and gentiles in our midst. It has always supported the gentile churches and still does. It has always welcomed gentiles into its own synagogues and still does.
HOWEVER, if one of the primary purposes of the MJ movement is to restore Jewish identity and observence, having the majority of the membership being gentile runs counter to this objective. Why? Because without meaning to, we gentiles bring into the synagogue outside theology, outside mentality, outside traditions, outside culture.
It is so critical that Jews pass on their Jewish identity to their children. To do this, they need the help of Jewish community, not gentile churches. I'm not saying they need to live in a vaccuum where there are only Jews, but certainly they NEED Jewish community. They need to live around Jews, worship with Jews, eat with Jews, talk with Jews, argue with Jews, have a glass of l'chaim with Jews, pray with Jews. And they aren't going to have that in a congregational community that is 90% goyim.
There is also a great concern with the identity confusion many gentile members are feeling -- there is nothing good about that. It is NOT RIGHT that they come to believe that they are Jewish simply because they feel Jewish or act Jewish. And it is NOT RIGHT that they may feel they are second class simply because they are not Jews.
The present circumstances are just WRONG for everyone concerned, and need to be fixed.
Hashivenu is a think tank within UMJC. It deals with MANY issues. It's overarching theme has been, "Messianic Judaism is a Judaism." When I first came across the Hashivenu website, my immediate thought was, "This is it. This is the group that is going to save MJ from itself. In fact, this is more than that. This is the future." They are absolutely brilliant. Hashivenu suggested that the gentile issue be approached in a new way.
Hashivenu is not without its detractors. Sheesh, do rabbis EVER do anything without argument amongst themselves? There are those bitterly opposed to its suggestions regarding gentile believers.
The first step has been taken by our Rabbinical Council, which is urging that congregational leaders clarify status issues to its members, and gradually undo the wishy-washy blurriness they are responsible for having created. There are Jews, there are gentiles, and there are gentiles seeking conversion. They are all equal under G-d, but very different things are required of them.
It's the second step is much more hotly debated. UMJC is very divided over it: Hashivenu is very strong in this new direction, but there are still many congregations of the old way of thinking. Basically, Hashivenu suggests that we should see within MJ synagogues what we would see in any synagogue: gentiles, but not lots and lots of gentiles. Not syngagogues run by gentiles with a few token Jews. How could it be a Messianic JEWISH congregation without Jews?
Hashivenu has dared to explore looking at the motivations for WHY gentiles come to MJ synagogues. And not all the reasons are equally good.
Let's say a very nice Christian family decided to come to your local Orthodox synagogue there in Jerusalem. You are polite and even friendly, although it makes you feel a little odd. Eventually the timing is right and you get around to asking them what draws them to your synagogue. And the wife says, "Well, we just like the Jewish people, and we want to worship on Saturday, because Jesus did." What are you going to do? what would most in your congregation do? What do you think the leadership of your congregation would do?
The leaders of Hashivenu suggest that we be very kind to such people. That we do NOT run them out. But in the course of events, as topics come up for discussion, their congregational leaders may wish to suggest to them that they might be better suited in a Christian church, perhaps a Seventh Day Adventist. Why? Because the reasons they have given are not sufficient, especially given the problem the percentage of gentiles is posing to the messianic community.
There are three groups of gentiles which Hashivenu suggests DO fully belong within MJ communities: those married to Jews, those drawn to conversion to Judaism, and those with a rare charism to the Jewish People.
What is NORMATIVE for the gentiles with yeshua-faith are the gentile churches, and this should be supported.
This is how I have noticed things pan out in my own congregation: We encourage Jewish visitors to return. We are friendly to gentile visitors but not explicitly encouraging. Occasionally, we discuss our mission statement, part of which is "We are a Westside JEWISH congregation," and what that means.
In my experience, those gentiles that are PERSISTENT in hanging around eventually begin to ask themselves if they shouldn't convert. I know several who are at the stage where they have not asked for conversion, but want it. They say things like, "I want to be sure this is something I really want, that its really the right thing, and that I'm not just confused. After all, there is nothing wrong with being a gentile." That sounds very healthy to me.
And it's why I queried Steve whether he might not consider conversion. I don't remember him responding. I don't know his feelings. Some believe it is wrong or insulting to convert. Who knows what he thinks. But it wouldn't surprise me if he does some day, either.
I don't know if this has been fascinating, boring, or somewhere in between. If you want to read more, I would suggest going to the website of the Messianic Jewish Rabbinical Council and reading what they've posted on Conversion.
http://www.ourrabbis.org/main/content/view/18/32/
Another good one is Dan Juster's article on gentile identiy confusion, "Who Am I?"
http://www.tikkunministries.org/newsletters/dj-dec04.asp