Im still praying for my boaz. But life still feels lonely. What does everyone here do when they just get tired of being single?
Im still praying for my boaz. But life still feels lonely. What does everyone here do when they just get tired of being single?
I am celibate and single because I wanted to be like a nun in this life. One way to help with feeling lonely is to do volunteer work or read/write a story.Im still praying for my boaz. But life still feels lonely. What does everyone here do when they just get tired of being single?
Im still praying for my boaz. But life still feels lonely. What does everyone here do when they just get tired of being single?
Wow. Monk Brendan, sir, how did you move past not finding the woman of your heart? I feel sad for you. I'm sorry.
Im still praying for my boaz. But life still feels lonely. What does everyone here do when they just get tired of being single?
Wow not one person offered any real advice to help, well maybe one. As a Christian, I find it hard to believe the cynicism here. I feel the same way the OP does, except I'm looking for Ruth, and simply saying deal with it doesn't seem like an appropriate response.
Wow. God doesn't take away the pain of loneliness. So what you are saying is, embrace the suck, because you're alone, deal with it and stop wanting to not be alone. God may always be around, but God didn't help me when I was face down on the ground begging Him to stop the pain. Saying deal with it because you should learn to like being alone, that's not encouragement.What do you want? Some magic formula for how not to be lonely or how to find your mate?
Life is real. It isn't always happy. Sometimes advice is common such as learning how to change your focus and learn to accept what good life has given you. God has not promised us a human life of non-stop happiness. He has not promised us a spouse either. Godly advice is always to stop focusing on our own problems but learn to accept what life has given us and lean on God. I think that is the gist of almost all advice given here. To say "you will find that one" may be offering false hope and may be a lie. It may also be the lie that causes someone to believe that God doesn't care for them because that special someone never appears. To promise that God will always be with you when you are feeling lonely is truth and should be considered encouragement.
Wow. God doesn't take away the pain of loneliness. So what you are saying is, embrace the suck, because you're alone, deal with it and stop wanting to not be alone. God may always be around, but God didn't help me when I was face down on the ground begging Him to stop the pain. Saying deal with it because you should learn to like being alone, that's not encouragement.