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Christian Love is a Lifestyle—Not a Feeling

A lawyer who was a Pharisee once asked our Lord,

"Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?" Jesus said to him, 'You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets" —Matthew 22:36-40​
 
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Christian Love is a Selfless and Giving Love

Christians love their neighbors as they love themselves. Christians who abide in this loving lifestyle freely give to others, the very things that they would want given them, if they were in the other's situation.

Giving freely means that loving Christians are selfless when giving to others, even when doing so means other's cannot pay you back—especially if they can't pay you back. Christian love is respect for others. It's mercy for others. And it's charity for others.

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How can Christians Love Difficult People?

Everyone has someone in their family or workplace who drives them crazy or rubs them the wrong way. Maybe there's a colleague at work who regularly tells raunchy jokes or hurls sly insults. It could be someone at your church who annoys you with their hurtful habits. There are many causes that will eventually dampen our spirits in this world.

People will recognize we are Christians by our love and we how cope with difficult people. But how can we show genuine love toward our neighbor when the natural response to many of these situations is to force a laugh or put on a fake smile. How do we love difficult people, when what we may really want to do is cry, or cringe, or even run away to avoid the situation. The negative emotions people experience from these situations can cause us to loose sight of the love God wants us to show to others.

...For if ye love them which love you, what thank have ye? for sinners also love those that love them. —Luke 6:31-36 (KJV)

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As we grow in Christ, we learn we can't do it on our own. Because of our broken, sinful nature, our hearts aren't capable of mustering sufficient love to cover all of the foibles and flaws of our fellow humans—including ourselves. Occasionally we have trouble loving those who are closest and dearest to us. Too often, our feeble, short-lived attempts at love fail and our patience withers.

God is the only true source of infinite compassion, strength, and love. When we rely entirely on God by embracing God's infinite provision of forgiveness and love for us, only then we can more fervently and sincerely begin to love our neighbors. It is only then people will know we are Christians by our love.
 
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Jesus said,

But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; —Matthew 5:44 (KJV)
 
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They Will Know We Are Christians By Our Love

If you want to know how to love God, look at the first four commandments. If you want to know how to love your neighbor, look to the last six commandments.

The 10 Commandments List in Exodus 20:2-17

Loving God:


1. I am the LORD your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of bondage. You shall have no other gods before Me.

2. You shall not make for yourself a carved image—any likeness of anything that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth; you shall not bow down to them nor serve them. For I, the LORD your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children to the third and fourth generations of those who hate Me, but showing mercy to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My commandments.

3. You shall not take the name of the LORD your God in vain, for the LORD will not hold him guiltless who takes His name in vain.

4. Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is the Sabbath of the LORD your God. In it you shall do no work: you, nor your son, nor your daughter, nor your male servant, nor your female servant, nor your cattle, nor your stranger who is within your gates. For in six days the LORD made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested the seventh day. Therefore the LORD blessed the Sabbath day and hallowed it.

Loving Your Neighbor:

5. Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long upon the land which the LORD your God is giving you.

6. You shall not murder.

7. You shall not commit adultery.

8. You shall not steal.

9. You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

10. You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.
 
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Love Your Neighbor

Our second most important responsibility in life is to love other people—love our neighbors as we love our self. Jesus said:

And the second [greatest command] is like [the first], namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these. —Mark 12:31

All People of the World Are Neighbors

Jesus explained in His Parable of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37), that we should consider all the people of the world to be our neighbors. The Jews and Samaritans were from rival religions and peoples of a different race and nationality. For hundreds of years they despised each other and did not speak. In the parable, a Samaritan man stopped to help an injured Jewish man. The Samaritan spent his time and money to give him the best care he could. At the conclusion of the parable, Jesus says to, "Go and do likewise."

Enemies Are Neighbors Too

Just as God loves all His people, so should we. Jesus calls us to extend our love even to our enemies.

Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you; That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust. For if ye love them which love you, what reward have ye? do not even the publicans the same? And if ye salute your brethren only, what do ye more than others? do not even the publicans so? Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect. —Matthew 5:43-48

Sinners Are Neighbors Too

In Jesus' time, proper people looked down on those they considered to be sinners and would not associate with them.

But, we are all sinners in our own ways (Romans 3:23, 1 John 1:8).

Jesus taught by word and example not to look down on, shun, criticize, judge, or condemn other people (Matthew 7:1-5, Matthew 9:10-13, Luke 18:9-14, John 8:3-11).
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Christian Love is a Lifestyle—Not a Feeling

A lawyer who was a Pharisee once asked our Lord,

"Teacher, which is the great commandment in the law?" Jesus said to him, 'You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'You shall love your neighbor as yourself.' On these two commandments hang all the Law and the Prophets" —Matthew 22:36-40​

God has been patient and gracious with me as He taught me to step down off the roller-coaster of "feelings". Love does not have to be the "warm fuzzies". They dissipate. Love is like an "anchor" that God affixes to ones soul that steadies us, keeps us constant, and unwavering, regardless of what may come such as storms, and unpleasantness. Love is "ego-less". Our ego "shrinks", and that's a GOOD thing. Paul comes to mind. I think he understood that.
 
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THIS is profound. Honoring our father and mother is crucial in our own healing and freedom from chains of generational curses, and dysfunction, etc. It is only in honoring our parents (the due honor and regard for the fact that both were used of God to bring us forth in the world) that we "grow up". God is our best Teacher on what this means, and we find that when we forgive our mother and father, in God's timing and through HIS power to do so, we "forgive" ourselves and "freedom commences for each of us, and generational curses are broken and strongholds are demolished.
 
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They Will Know We Are Christians by Our Love


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We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord
We are one in the Spirit, we are one in the Lord
And we pray that our unity will one day be restored
And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
Yeah they'll know we are Christians by our love

We will work with each other, we will work side by side
We will work with each other, we will work side by side
And we'll guard each man's dignity and save each man's pride
And they'll know we are Christians by our love, by our love
Yeah, they'll know we are Christians by our love.

Songwriter: Peter Scholtes

They'll Know We Are Christians by Our Love lyrics © The Lorenz Corporation

Artist: Jars of Clay
Album: Redemption Songs
Released: 2005
Genre: Christian/gospel
 
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Love of Commission

A more concrete definition of how we love people as Christians comes from the Epistle Paul in his first letter to Corinth.

Love is patient, love is kind and is not jealous; love does not brag and is not arrogant, does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own, is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. —1 Corinthians 13:4-7
 
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