Arcoe,
One thing I noticed that was conspicuously absent from your diatribe was any reference to the Word of God. You will always arrive at faulty conclusions as long as you depend on your marred human wisdom to form your conclusions.
In defining "free will" as you did, you revealed your abject ignorance of the issues in the theological discussion in which we are engaged here. I don't think anyone here would deny that human beings, in every decision we make, choose what we will, what we think, what we delight in and how we will act. Short of calling you an imbecile, I am not sure how to describe one who would enter into a discussion like this without even some vague concept of the real issues.
I am trying to get some fix on your theological orientation. It appears to me you are basically Pelagian in your views. You seem to believe everyone is born innocent just as Adam was created in God's image. But, it also seems you believe some are in some way better than others since not all do not resist the Holy Spirit. Perhaps you could share with me what makes some better than others. Stephen preached that not only did those whom he addressed ALWAYS resist the Holy Spirit, but their fathers had acted in exactly the same way. Acts 7:51
What I am having difficulty with is why a "supposed" believer thinks everyone can understand what is clearly written in the Bible when the Apostle Paul states "the natural man does not receive the things of the Spirit of God for they are foolishness to him, neither CAN he know them because they are discerned by means of the Spirit. "1 Cor. 2:14.
A am also guessing you think King David was describing himself as an exception to the rest of the human race when he wrote that he was brought forth in iniquity and conceived in sin (Psa. 51:5.
If I believed I were less a sinner than the rest of the race, I wouldn't need the grace of God would I. Unlike you, I believe what Paul wrote in Eph 2, "And you were dead in the trespasses and sins
2 in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience-
3 among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind."
Since you believe some sinners are able and willing to turn to God on their own, you must believe there is some aspect of their being that is better than the rest and less in need of God's grace. Paul's statement in Eph 2 seems to indicate that all sinners are alike "were by nature children of wrath, LIKE THE REST OF MANKIND."
Hope you have a lovely day.