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The claim that homosexuals do not cause their kids to behave homosexually. Society does not yet accept it, so naturally there is still a great deal of pressure not to adopt gay guardian's sexuality, but the more we tear up the fundamental fabric of our society the less encouragement there is to maintain healthy practices, and eventually your society declines.

It has been demonstrated to happen. You can't make a legitimate claim that mainstreaming homosexuality is not eventually going to increase its occurrence based on a study stating that so far kids are not turning gay 90% of the time if raised by a gay couple.

(i.e. the very post you quoted.)
OK, so, lets assume for a moment that mainstream acceptance of homosexuality, and regular adoptiuon by homosexual parents DOES directly lead to an increase in homosexuality...

So what?

You seem to be treating "homosexuality is bad" as axiomatic. Without explaining WHY an increase in homosexuality is bad, I fail to see why you should think "it might lead to an increase in homosexuality" as sufficient reason to deny people basic equality.
 
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Because cultures where it was more accepted, it was more prevalent.

Common knowledge really. You can safely throw any study to the contrary in the trash because it's in the books already. There's a pretty sound reason why you do not yet see the effect -- most of society still frowns on homosexuality.

Nor is there any reason to suspect that there is anything wrong with society frowning on homosexuality.
Common knowledge is a poor citation.

However, OF COURSE societies where homosexuality is more accepted will have more examples of homosexuality... for the same reason that the West has more alcohol drinkers than Islamic countries, and the same reason why the US north has more inter racial marriages than the US South... not because the acceptance of a behaviour changes the underlying desire of people to engage in it, but because people will repress a desire seen as socially unacceptible.

Yes, more people might have actual homosexual relationships in a society where homosexuality is accepted. That does not mean that the actual number of homosexual changes at all.
 
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Common knowledge is a poor citation.

Actually it's a nice way of breaking people of the habit of asking for a citation for whether or not mucous can be found in the nostrils, among other things.

The constant badgering for citations of obvious things is just a rhetorical ploy.

Yes, more people might have actual homosexual relationships in a society where homosexuality is accepted. That does not mean that the actual number of homosexual changes at all.

That's up to society to decide. You are again making the assertion that homosexuality is somehow magically defined in a way that cannot be detected. By my understanding, the more practicing homosexuals there are, the more homosexuals there are by definition.

There is no way for you to demonstrate that there is some intrinsic homosexuality that is merely more often expressed in a more tolerant society, and the APA, oft quoted by liberals on this subject, absolutely positively does not posit any such definite cause. It simply states that most homosexuals report experiencing little or no control over their orientation.

Well of course not... you define homosexual as someone who says they experience little or no control of their orientation. Everyone else who has ever had homosexual sex or a homosexual experience of any kind and overcome it, you define out of the group. I am supposed to be amazed by this "discovery"?

If you believe, as I do, that homosexuality is in most cases largely learned, and that the small percentage of people exclusively homosexual are that way largely because they have simply wholeheartedly chosen to define themselves as such, then the snowball effect of homosexuality becoming more and more prevalent can be seen to be having a deleterious effect on society's cultural underpinnings. People begin to believe life is all about sex, sexual expression, sexual pursuits and even the most bizarre sexual practices are to be experienced and shared, and suddenly no one is paying attention to the idea of the natural family anymore.

The next thing you know, all your bases are belong to a more robust culture that comes in that still remembers what life is all about, at least on some basic biological level.
 
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That's up to society to decide. You are again making the assertion that homosexuality is somehow magically defined in a way that cannot be detected. By my understanding, the more practicing homosexuals there are, the more homosexuals there are by definition.
Then your understanding is wrong. Homosexuality is the tendency to be sexually attracted to a member of your own sex. It is possible, for example, to be a homosexual and a virgin, just as it is possible to be a homosexual in a heterosexual relationship.
There is no way for you to demonstrate that there is some intrinsic homosexuality that is merely more often expressed in a more tolerant society, and the APA, oft quoted by liberals on this subject, absolutely positively does not posit any such definite cause. It simply states that most homosexuals report experiencing little or no control over their orientation.
True, it is probably impossible to come up with a definate and reliable figure that accurately reflects the actual number of homosexuals in society. This is due to the fact that sexuality is subjective and, when combined with the continuing percieved stigma of homosexuality, we can assume that some people who are actually homosexual will self identify as heterosexual.
Well of course not... you define homosexual as someone who says they experience little or no control of their orientation. Everyone else who has ever had homosexual sex or a homosexual experience of any kind and overcome it, you define out of the group. I am supposed to be amazed by this "discovery"?
For someone with such a problem with "strawmaning" you sure like to make assumptions about what other people believe.

I never said anything to suggest I think what you said I think. There are people who are naturally homosexual. There are people who are artificially homosexual, due to trauma or abnormal conditioning. Similarly, there are heterosexuals who have had homosexual experiences, just as there are homosexuals who have had heterosexual experiences. There are also bi sexuals who have only ever had either hetero or homosexual experiences, bi sexuals who have had both, and bi sexuals who have had neither.
If you believe, as I do, that homosexuality is in most cases largely learned,
I do not. And there is a great deal of evidence suggesting that homosexuality is strongly the result of genetics, not learned.
and that the small percentage of people exclusively homosexual are that way largely because they have simply wholeheartedly chosen to define themselves as such,
I understand that this is a convenient way to view homosexuals, since it makes it easier to condemn them for their "choice"... however this is a classic example of? Thats right, strawmaning. The vast bulk of homosexuals deny ever having made any choice in relation to their sexuality, and who do you think is better qualified to tell us if homosexuality is a choice or not. You or them?
then the snowball effect of homosexuality becoming more and more prevalent can be seen to be having a deleterious effect on society's cultural underpinnings.
Even if your thesis were correct, that homosexuality somehow increases with social acceptance, what, specifically, is the "deleterious effect on society's cultural underpinings"?
People begin to believe life is all about sex, sexual expression, sexual pursuits and even the most bizarre sexual practices are to be experienced and shared, and suddenly no one is paying attention to the idea of the natural family anymore.
Is there a shred of evidence to support any of these ideas? Is there any reason, other than scaremongering, to think that homosexuals believe life is any more about sex than heterosexuals? Is there any reason to think that an acceptance of homosexuality leads to any other "bizarre shared sexual experiences"? And finally, is there any reason to believe that people with sex lives you would consider "bizarre" are any less likely to be family oriented?
The next thing you know, all your bases are belong to a more robust culture that comes in that still remembers what life is all about, at least on some basic biological level.
Correct me if I'm reading this wrong... but is this a tangential reference to the, ahem, "idea" that if homosexuality is generally accepted in Western Democratic society, then everyone here in the West will suddenly become homosexual, and then we'll all be eaten alive by Muslims? Is that what you are trying to imply?
 
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And the orientation to be a serial killer...

I'm not aware of anyone positing such a thing as a "serial killer orientation". If there were such a thing, it wouldn't be a sexual orientation, so that's not really relevant to the discussion. Also, to be a serial killer one must have carried a certain set of actions - i.e. murdering multiple victims. There is no set of actions that one must carry out to be of a specific sexual orientation. So again, it's not really relevant to the discussion.

...and an orientation to be an alcoholic....

Which again wouldn't be a sexual orientation, although it's a bit closer to the mark in that alcoholism, like sexual orientation, isn't something that's chosen. On the other hand, alcoholism is an addiction resulting in a dependency on alcohol, whereas sexual orientation isn't an addiction and doesn't result in a dependency on anything.

You're just fiddling with words, and it will eventually catch up to you.

Seems to me that you're the one fiddling with words - you've been told repeatedly that you're misusing and/or misunderstanding the terms "homosexuality" and "sexual orientation", and yet you persist in doing it.

Of course you can detect a reaction based on someone's desires, but that does not distinguish homosexuality from any other desire that prompts a behavior.

Homosexuality - like heterosexuality and any other sexual orientation - isn't really a desire as such. Most of the time, it's something that's latent, in the background. Sometimes one might see someone and think, "ooh, they're cute," but to define that as "a desire that prompts a behaviour" is, IMO, a bit far of the mark. What sort of behaviour, for one thing, do you think it prompts?

And it IS your political outlook because the discussion goes back and forth like this all the time. It's not as if I am the only one to notice.

Sorry, but again you're wrong. FWIW, I've known the meaning of words like "homosexuality" and "sexual orientation" for at least 20 years, in which time my political outlook has shifted from somewhere slightly right of centre to full-on socialist. Political outlook doesn't affect ones ability to understand the meanings of words.

David.
 
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People begin to believe life is all about sex, sexual expression, sexual pursuits and even the most bizarre sexual practices are to be experienced and shared, and suddenly no one is paying attention to the idea of the natural family anymore.

The next thing you know, all your bases are belong to a more robust culture that comes in that still remembers what life is all about, at least on some basic biological level.
Correct me if I'm reading this wrong... but is this a tangential reference to the, ahem, "idea" that if homosexuality is generally accepted in Western Democratic society, then everyone here in the West will suddenly become homosexual, and then we'll all be eaten alive by Muslims? Is that what you are trying to imply?
Actually, I think I'll go out on a limb here and say I have identified Shane's source of anxt over this issue. Gays are bad because the Muslims will come get us when we all turn into effeminate girly men.
 
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Seems to me that you're the one fiddling with words - you've been told repeatedly that you're misusing and/or misunderstanding the terms "homosexuality" and "sexual orientation", and yet you persist in doing it.



Homosexuality - like heterosexuality and any other sexual orientation - isn't really a desire as such. Most of the time, it's something that's latent, in the background. Sometimes one might see someone and think, "ooh, they're cute," but to define that as "a desire that prompts a behaviour" is, IMO, a bit far of the mark. What sort of behaviour, for one thing, do you think it prompts?



Sorry, but again you're wrong. FWIW, I've known the meaning of words like "homosexuality" and "sexual orientation" for at least 20 years, in which time my political outlook has shifted from somewhere slightly right of centre to full-on socialist. Political outlook doesn't affect ones ability to understand the meanings of words.

David.

And my political outlook has gone from right wing extremist to right wing moderate. I still know how to use words and terms correctly. Even back when my head was shaved and I though pre-emptive military action against Indonesia was a good idea, I didn't try to redefine terms to suit my agenda.
 
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I've been told by you two I am misusing the words, and have cited the APA itself saying the way you're trying to characterize it is false. I even put it up word for word against one of the two or three of you's exact post.

Not that having the APA and someone's exact words together in the exact same post would ever prove anything to gay activists, since the main point is to demonize anyone who disagrees.



I'm out for the night. Nice way to ignore everything of substance I said and just repeat your talking points.
 
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From post 206

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The word is "orientation," not "preference." And it has reference to the documented fact that some people find themselves attracted to people of the same sex as themselves, not as a fleeting pubertal-curiosity effect, but as a full-on desire, of the sort that most others conceive towards people of the opposite sex -- and that this attraction is unchangeable by human effort.

"Unchangeable by human effort"

http://www.apa.org/topics/sorientation.html#whatis

"There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation."

"Most people (not all) experience little or no (not none ever) choice about their sexual orientation."

A significant number of various types of criminals report not being able to control themselves either.

Willful people often discover self discipline when it no longer becomes an issue of argument and becomes an issue of requirement. Accountability is deteriorating in this country. Not just in this issue at all, really, but in every sphere, society has lost its bearings concerning the very real necessity to stop daydreaming amongst the clouds and take responsibility.

In order to change feelings, you have to change your attitude. And sometimes that is HARD, but people do it every day.
 
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I've been told by you two I am misusing the words, and have cited the APA itself saying the way you're trying to characterize it is false.

Have you? I've just taken a look at the latest bit you quoted from the APA, and the general gist of what it's saying is that a.) homosexuality is one of a number of sexual orientations, and b.) most people seem to have no or little degree of choice about their sexual orientation. Given that that's pretty much what other people have been telling you, I'm not sure how you see that as "the APA itself saying the way you're trying to characterize it is false". Enlighten me.

Not that having the APA and someone's exact words together in the exact same post would ever prove anything to gay activists, since the main point is to demonize anyone who disagrees.

I can only speak for myself, but no, I'm not really interested in trying to demonise anyone. I'll certainly do my best to persuade people who (I believe) are wrong, to change their opinions (that is, after all, what debate is all about), but no, I'm not interested in demonising anyone.

I'm out for the night. Nice way to ignore everything of substance I said and just repeat your talking points.

You must have missed the bits where I responded point-by-point to your posts.

I'd still like you to explain - if you're going to persist in your claim that "homosexuality is a behaviour" - exactly what sort of behaviour it is. What does it involve doing? 'Cos I still can't think of anything that is universal to all homosexuals everywhere.

Goodnight (he says, posting at 6:40 in the morning - the wonders of transatlantic discussion over teh interwebbz...)

David.
 
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I've been told by you two I am misusing the words, and have cited the APA itself saying the way you're trying to characterize it is false. I even put it up word for word against one of the two or three of you's exact post.

Didn't you rail against the APA in the 'Great Big Homosexuality Thread'? If so, why are you now using it as a source?

I'm not sure if you're ignoring me or if you missed my question, but I'll report the last thing I said to you just in case it's the latter.

EDIT: My quoted post was reported, so I'm going to remove it.
 
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From post 206



"Unchangeable by human effort"

http://www.apa.org/topics/sorientation.html#whatis

"There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation."

"Most people (not all) experience little or no (not none ever) choice about their sexual orientation."

A significant number of various types of criminals report not being able to control themselves either.

Willful people often discover self discipline when it no longer becomes an issue of argument and becomes an issue of requirement. Accountability is deteriorating in this country. Not just in this issue at all, really, but in every sphere, society has lost its bearings concerning the very real necessity to stop daydreaming amongst the clouds and take responsibility.

In order to change feelings, you have to change your attitude. And sometimes that is HARD, but people do it every day.

Why should anyone change their orientation, except to please you?
 
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Polycarp1 said:
The word is "orientation," not "preference." And it has reference to the documented fact that some people find themselves attracted to people of the same sex as themselves, not as a fleeting pubertal-curiosity effect, but as a full-on desire, of the sort that most others conceive towards people of the opposite sex -- and that this attraction is unchangeable by human effort.

From post 206

"Unchangeable by human effort"

Unchangeable PERIOD!

By the way, what possible reason would God have for changing someone's sexual orientation when it's the heart of the person that's important ...NOT the sexual orientation? If we assume that God feels the need to change one's sexual persuasion before He accepts them then why wouldn't He simply accept them 'as is' without the change? :confused: I mean, they've either accepted God or they haven't ...whatever their sexual orientation.

Have you never asked yourself this very pertinent question, Shane?

tp://www.apa.org/topics/sorientation.html#whatis

"There is no consensus among scientists about the exact reasons that an individual develops a heterosexual, bisexual, gay, or lesbian orientation. Although much research has examined the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social, and cultural influences on sexual orientation, no findings have emerged that permit scientists to conclude that sexual orientation is determined by any particular factor or factors. Many think that nature and nurture both play complex roles; most people experience little or no sense of choice about their sexual orientation."

"Most people (not all) experience little or no (not none ever) choice about their sexual orientation."

So, what 'conclusion' are you offering here, Shane?

A significant number of various types of criminals report not being able to control themselves either.

What the he ...ck are you talking about, man? One's sexual orientation has NOTHING to do with control!

Willful people often discover self discipline when it no longer becomes an issue of argument and becomes an issue of requirement. Accountability is deteriorating in this country. Not just in this issue at all, really, but in every sphere, society has lost its bearings concerning the very real necessity to stop daydreaming amongst the clouds and take responsibility.

Stop taking the weight of the whole world on your shoulders, Shane. Concentrate on Shane Roach and make sure that his house is in order.

In order to change feelings, you have to change your attitude. And sometimes that is HARD, but people do it every day.

As you say, people change their feelings and their attitudes every day. And that's precisely what you need to do, Shane. Accept the fact that homosexuals are with us and will be with us until time is no more. Embrace them just as Jesus would do ...and r-e-l-a-x.

You're heading for a heart attack, man.
 
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Just for the record, KCKID, my position on ex-gays is pragmatic, not the sort of thing where you reason brilliantly from first premises and end up proving that you yourself don't exist (;)). I believe anyone who isn't obviously covering up and compensating for something he's ashamed of or is trying to pretend doesn't exist -- I had my own share of denial on something quite different, so I know that sort of thing. That means that when 99.9999...% of gay men and over 98% of gay women report that they are unable to change their orientation, I believe them. When bisexuals report their sexuality being fluid over time, I believe them. And when a few people with a deep faith and a kindly if witness-y nature report that they were gay but God changed them, I believe them too.

As to "why does He answer the prayers of a few but not others?", I have no more answer than you. Except this: God calls each person to the work that He has in mind for them. And I believe He's far less interested in what sort of people you find attractive than in what you do about it -- as in committed monogamy with one spouse you love if you're not called to celibacy, if that wasn't already clear. A few people, He has a heterosexual life planned but whatever triggers homosexuality eventuated so they started out gay, and needed His intervention. But I do want to note that (1) these events are rare, (2) they're the direct work of God, not Him acting through some so-called 'conversion therapy ministry', and (3) I believe that God blesses the marriages of His GLBT sons and daughers every bit as much as He has my own.

As for Shane, I have no idea what he thinks he's accomplishing comparing people he seems to think he's reaching out to to change them to criminals and psyhopaths. You know what Shane Roach, Jeffrey Dahmer, Adolf Hitler, and Charles Manson have in common, don't you?* I know that such comparisons would certainly move me to think about what the person making them had to say. :doh:










* Like you, me, and everyoine else, they're sinners redeemed by the grace of God mediated through the Atonement of Jesus Christ. And no, it's not an insult.
 
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No, it doesn't. It says that the Constitution and laws and treaties made pursuant thereto are the supreme law of the land. If a law violates the constitution, it is null and void, as being unconstitutional, or as being unconstitutional in the application given. (An example of the latter: you can make driving over the speed limit on a superhighway illegal, and enforce it fairly. But if as a police agency you consistently let white people get away with speeding and ticket blacks who speed, or let people from your state speed but ticket people with out-of-state plates, you're breaking the equal protection clause, and the judge is honorbound to throw out those tickets. Not because the drivers weren't breaking the law -- they were -- or because the law is unconstitutional in itself -- it certainly isn't -- but because its unequal enforcement violates the constitution.)

well, then it is personal interpretation as to whether DOMA is unconstitutional or not. However if it was unconstitutional I don't think it would have stood for as long as it has.

There are arguments that the Federal DOMA was ultra vires -- Congress passing a law it had no constitutional right to pass -- depending on the interpretation placed on the full faith and credit clause. I won't go into those arguments unless you're especially interested, but kindly note that they have been made, and they're not 'a stretch.'


exactly, people still cannot conclude prohibiting gay marriage is against the constitution. Freedom of Rights is a very conditional thing as you may already know considering we have things like obscenity laws and laws against prostitution and such. So our freedom is contingent on the law of the land.


Pretty accurate summary. Of course, from some points of view, calling this the 'Defense of Marriage Act' is like some state passing a 'Defense of Christianity Act' prohibiting disruptive behavior in and around a church during its services, but excluding Catholics from its definition of Christian.

well that is kinda a vague example considering the definition of marriage is pretty clean cut. One man and one woman in union.

Well, to start with, you're engaging in circular reasoning there, by presupposing that hermeneutics doesn't come into play because you've already assumed that the question raised is against the Bible. See your second sentence and then the underscored phrase -- the Bible does not say "Thou shall not contract nor solemnize a gay marriage" in explicit terms; therefore, whatever you infer from the Biblical standards for marriage and for sexual morality must therefore be interpretive. It may be a pretty clear inference -- for example, the Golden Calf, not being carved but metal, was certainly not a 'graven image' but was nonetheless the object of idolatry -- but it's still an inference.

the bible doesn't say anything about child rape either. However we know its wrong because of the core moral principles in the bible already set as well as our God given conscience that acts as an internal "Law" in our hearts.

And as a Catholic I believe interpretation has already been layed down by the Church through its dogma. The bible has to be interpreted within teachings and dogma that has come down to us from the apostles and they're successors. I don't believe personal interpretation of the bible holds much weight and hence I use the example of Christendom for the past 2000 years, which has already declared homosexual acts as an intrinsic evil. That is not my interpretation or personal opinion. Even protestants interpret they're bible through they're own similar dogmas. But since the beginning of time the prophets, the apostles, and they're successors have always been clear on what is sinful and what is not. It was only until the 20th century that this new interpretation that homosexuality is not a sin anymore came to light. And that just doesn't hold allot of weight. In fact I don't think it holds any weight. God would not let Christendom err for so long.


But the bottom line to me is that government in the U.S. (and Canada) is not obliged to conform to what you or I or anyone else sees as Biblical standards. (At times, that's a shame; at others, our saving grace.) We guarantee that no one shall have an official, government-issue faith, or doctrines, or behavior system derived from it, forced on them by the power of government, and guarantee that individuals (guided by their family, friends, parents, or whatever, but not by public authority) may choose what they will believe and how to behave in accordance with those beliefs.


Well the argument that DOMA is mainly a faith based law is arguable. There are many other factors that are taken into consideration, like procreation, and the general example of human anatomy and history.

ALL laws have some moral principle behind them. The balancing of the scales of justice. And when you get into the issues of morals you get into the issues of faith.

This is a point that seems to escape most conservative evangelicals -- believing as they do that they have certainty from Scripture as to what God wants of them, they feel that gives them grounds to override the constitutional protections against enforced religiously-motivated behavior -- because it's God's will. Well, remember that most of them came to America to escape Catholicism or Anglicanism or Calvinism or Lutheranism enforced by the kingdom or duchy or whatever under which they were compelled to live in Europe.


Well thats questionable. People came to the New World for exploration and to conquer new land. Its laughable to think the Spanish where trying to escape the Church when they came to the New World considering they were quite zealous in spreading the faith. Same with the Reformers who populated north America.

Let's make this clear: We Christians who support gay marriage follow the Bible. What we don't do is follow your opinion about what the Bible means. It's offensive and arguably contrary to Board rules, so kindly knock it off.


Well again , you cannot truly make that claim 100%. There are some obvious verses in the bible that are gonna pose a problem for the things you support. And to act like they don't exist or are not there is being dishonest and doing a disservice to yourself. Its much better to take the verses for what they are at face value and be honest with what they mean. The apostles knew and well as the early Church fathers. I've seen gay activists try to circle around obvious verses like Romans 1:20-30 and the dishonesty and denial it takes to do such a thing is amazing and they pretty much have to re-define words in themselves to try to even get it similar to what they wanna say. In this we see the true colors of sin and what it does to people. People love sin so much that they will try to re-define what the bible says in order to justify they're favorite sins. This here shows us how deceitful sin and the devil is and that people will goto any length to justify they're sin so they can continue in it without they're conscience bothering them.

But sadly in the end it doesn't work. You cannot force the scales of justice to go the way you want it. If you put a rock on a scale it will go down, not matter how much you try to talk to it to go back up. The gravity of sin cannot be justified by words the same way gravity won't cease to exist by trying to change newtons law. It is what it is


As for the lawsuits, what I've seen is that on the occasions when gay couples sued religious groups of various descriptions, it was because the latter broke contracts previously agreed to because of it being a gay couple. There's a simple solution here: Provide that nobody can be compelled to officiate at, host, or in other ways provide material support for a marriage that goes against their moral standards, on the one hand, and on the other, tell them: get the facts before you sign. If Mike and Pat rent your wedding chapel for their marriage, be sure that Pat is Patricia, not Patrick, if it'll make a difference to you.


well thats nice and all but I don't believe its gonna be that easy. The main problem I have with the gay community is they're threat to religious freedom. The actions of they're community have displayed a general ill-content for our religious freedoms. Take a look at whats happening in CT when 2 gay activist lawmakers tried to pass a bill that would severe the authority of the bishops in the Church. The violence at the St. Paul/Mpls republican convention. The arresting of preachers for "hate-speech" and the censoring of blogs and news articles, the suing of private-buisnesses of people who didn't go against their conscience, the deliberate libel against businesses who voted for Prop 8 and ended up going out of business. These are obvious, manipulative, and sometimes violent attempts on peoples religious freedom



The obligation here was to recognize that the offspring of that marriage would be legitimate heir to the throne. And Henry was convinced that the previous marriage was in fact against canon law -- not his canon law, but what the Catholic Church had spelled out as what constitutes an invalid marriage -- his union, compelled by his father for treaty reasons, to his brother's widow, was in his eyes contrary to what the church law spelled out as legitimate. You know, like your opinion of a gay marriage?


Well the Pope wrote out a dispensation that overruled that. And thus it was valid(also Catherine didn't consummate her last marriage, she was a pure virgin). But that is besides the point. The point is the relevance to people having to act against their consciences under the threat of disciplinary action.

Where does it say that a child has a right to a mother and a father? What are you doing for all those children who have been denied that 'right'? You know, the ones in the foster homes that can't be adopted by gay couples and won't be adopted by 'good Christian families' because they're not babies, they're mixed-race, and so on?

It is the natural God given right to both parents. Considering it would be impossible to create a child without both parents. And even for people who don't believe in God can still agree that nature indeed intends for both parents to nurture they're children.


And I know the long-term effect of being raised by a violent, abusive, 'Bible-believing' father and a mother who is afraid to go against him or who even agrees in the abuse. And a gay couple who sincerely wants to nurture a child and give him or her a happy home, is definitely better for that child.


I agree there are abusive Christians out there who do harm to they're children. These are struggles that parents have to deal with. Most parents want the best for they're children but at times they can do more harm than good under they're zeal. However I don't think this justifies what you are trying to prove. I'm bringing up developmental factors that the child needs from both parents, the maternal and paternal nurturing that the child yearns for and responds to. There are days when the child just wants to confide in his/her mother and there are other days when they just want to confide in their father. A child needs to have both those options while growing up because it has an enormous effect on how the child will be later on in life.


You know, "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." It's too bad that's not Biblical, or even stated by God as the most important thing you can do. Oh, wait..... It Is


Of course, one of the reasons I'm posting this. However justifying sin is not doing good unto others but rather the opposite.
 
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The claim that homosexuals do not cause their kids to behave homosexually.
No one causes their children to behave heterosexually, homosexually or bisexually.
Neither does anyone cause their children to be heterosexual or homosexual or bisexual.


Society does not yet accept it, so naturally there is still a great deal of pressure not to adopt gay guardian's sexuality, but the more we tear up the fundamental fabric of our society the less encouragement there is to maintain healthy practices, and eventually your society declines.
No one adopts sexuality



It has been demonstrated to happen.
Can you provide actual evidence for your claim?

You can't make a legitimate claim that mainstreaming homosexuality is not eventually going to increase its occurrence based on a study stating that so far kids are not turning gay 90% of the time if raised by a gay couple.


(i.e. the very post you quoted.)
And if you would have bothered to read the study I cited you would know this and you would know how silly your misrepresentation sounds
 
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I'm sorry... so, where did the APA say that homosexuality was a choice, or that accepting homosexual relationships in mainstream society would lead to an increase in homosexuality? I must have missed that one too.

Well, it basically is saying (by negation) that a few people get to choose their sexuality, and odds are, some of them are gay. So a few people are gay by choice, though the other 99% aren't.

As to the increase in homosexuality, I dare say that is self evident. In a culture where it is not acceptable to be homosexual, there will always be those who lie about it, hide it, act heterosexual, ect. But in a culture that has no such ban, there is little to no reason for them to do the same. So there will be more open homosexuals. Of course, are we counting 'open' homosexuals or just homosexuals in general?
 
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