The pain that non-borderlines feel from borderlines

[Corinthi]

I've noticed that so much attention on this forum is directed toward borderlines and the pain that they feel, but what about the non-borderlines in their lives? Non-borderlines are at the receiving end of a very abusive relationship that the borderline dishes out.

Things like:

1) Manipulation
2) Control
3) Verbal Abuse
4) Push/Pull crazy-making

Borderlines do this and much more to others, and yet so many people want to feel more sorry for them, even though the have destructive personalities to the people around them.

 

[Corinthi]

Hi the thing is we don't enjoy it we just do it.
When you become aware it heightens the anxiety, mistakes, err, fear, dislike, hatred. We may walk around like its good but swinging from tears, to fears, Paronia, insecurity, suicidal ideations is not nice, no one benefits the BPD or the quoted normal everyday person. We create and live in hell, constantly, you can leave it, BPD cannot. Please don't believe we are not conscious or duty bound we are. Our need for love gives us a heightened on that runs paradox to our fear of loss and hurting others is as physically painful, yes we feel the emotions physically.