water_ripple said:
I've been taught that divorce was a sin. What happens when a person is continually emotionally abused/neglected? I've been told before that when one's spouse cannot or will not be part of the flock then it is okay to seek someone within the flock. Is this wrong or are we supposed to continually forgive for the same offense? A bit of help would be greatly appreciated.
The bible is clear on this issue. Divorce is wrong per Mark 10:4-12...
"And the Pharisees came to him (Jesus), and asked him, Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife? tempting him.
3 And he answered and said unto them, What did Moses command you?
4 And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away.
5 And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept.
6 But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.
7 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and cleave to his wife;
8 And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh.
9 What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.
10 And in the house his disciples asked him again of the same matter.
11 And he saith unto them, Whosoever shall put away his wife, and marry another, committeth adultery against her.
12 And if a woman shall put away her husband, and be married to another, she committeth adultery."
You two have to work it out.