Vicomte13
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What has been put forth on this thread:
1. It is better to die at the hands of an abusing spouse than get a divorce.
2. Adultery is justification for the death penalty.
3. If you are a Christian who is divorced and remarried you are in an unforgivable state of adultery and the only way out is to get another divorce in order to repent from the adultery and then repent from the second divorce, but that is another intentional sin so it may not be forgiven (grey area).
4. If you are a Christian and made an unwise decision at a very young age and got married and divorced- well too bad - it’s the single life and celibacy for you for the next 60 years or so. Sorry.
5. True Christians don’t sin. But on the rare and off chance they do, if they die before officially repenting, they are doomed. Even if they lived up to the two greatest commandments, it’s out the window until official repentance.
If there were any people reading this thread who were trying to learn about Christianity and struggling with the faith they are long gone. The legalistic zealots have chased them away.
But this is what they actually believe. And in fairness to them, that IS what the Bible LITERALLY SAYS. I keep re-quoting what they quote - yes, John really did say that the born again never sin again.
So, if you sin again, you are not born again, and not REALLY a Christian with God at all - and are doomed to the lake of fire.
This has made some of them mad. But the ONE THING that NOT ONE CHRISTIAN READING THIS has ever, or will ever, be able to do is to post the response: "I was born again a year ago, and I never once sinned again, just like John said."
And if one DID post that, we ALL KNOW FOR SURE that he's a LIAR, and by posting it he has, right there, committed a mortal sin which Jesus says, elsewhere in the Bible (twice on the last two pages of Revelation, actually) will damn him to the Lake of Fire.
So, I have laid a trap before the soul of the over-eager zealot, offering him the opportunity to "refute me" by telling a lie that, by his Bible, will cost him his immortal soul.
Nobody answers my challenge, because nobody CAN. We all sin again.
GIVEN THAT, the fact that remarried divorcees sin again by remarrying is just another one of those sins that people commit - and WE ALL COMMIT THEM AGAIN - and there is no good reason to focus on THAT ONE SIN and say to those unfortunate people "Well, YOU are a damned sinner because YOU remarried again after divorce, contrary to Jesus' commandment, and THAT is ESPECIALLY damned - even though I too am a sinner who has sinned again and again and again, I'm NOT damned in the same way that YOU are damned, because...well...because I say so!"
It's preposterous.
Pointing it out focuses on a sharp and impossible contradiction in the Bible, and forces people to face an issue that cannot be resolved.
There are many paths through the Bible. One is the path of harsh judgment...which leads to universal damnation. Jesus said that those who judge without mercy will be judged without mercy.
Of course, he ALSO said that those who judge with mercy will be judged with mercy, and that those who forgive everything will be forgiven everything - as you measure, so shall it be measured out to you.
Meaning that there is ANOTHER path through the Bible that leads to forgiveness of the sins of re-sinning again (forgiven Seventy-Times Seventy!) and forgiveness for the sin of adultery after remarriage (you will be forgiven to the extent that you forgive). This gentler path will lead to a gentle judgment.
People like to be hard-asses. Jesus told them they'll be hard-asses screaming in Hell after final judgment if they persist in it. I'm merely inviting themselves to dig themselves in deeper, because they choose to be relentless, unforgiving and unmerciful.
Yep, Jesus said it's adultery. So some people are gonna have to commit adultery to be happy. And they can and should be forgiven that, just as we forgive everything else. We forgive it, God forgives us. They forgive others, they're forgiven it too, and we have a happy ending.
Get legalistic and zealous, and the zealot can't make the forgiving adulteress burn in Hell, but he sure can make sure that God throws HIM in there.
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