Over the weekend I attended a gathering at my friend's home. She had her pastor's wife there. The woman is absolutely adorable and so warm and inviting.
I've never thought much about having a pastor's wife until she mentioned something about having difficulty making plans far in advance, because she may have to cancel them if someone ends up in the hospital, gets sick, or whatever else.
And then it dawned on me that, to be completely honest, if I was going to have a person from my church with me while I was in the hospital on my deathbed or when I was very sick, I'm not sure I'd want a priest there. It would be so uncomfortable.
But someone like her, she just radiates the word "welcome" and I totally wouldn't mind her being there. In fact, I would prefer her to be there over any of the priests I've ever had.
I realize she can't administer sacraments, but someone like her would be so much more comforting than a priest.
I know this won't go down well here, but it was just a thought that I wanted to share.
I've never thought much about having a pastor's wife until she mentioned something about having difficulty making plans far in advance, because she may have to cancel them if someone ends up in the hospital, gets sick, or whatever else.
And then it dawned on me that, to be completely honest, if I was going to have a person from my church with me while I was in the hospital on my deathbed or when I was very sick, I'm not sure I'd want a priest there. It would be so uncomfortable.
But someone like her, she just radiates the word "welcome" and I totally wouldn't mind her being there. In fact, I would prefer her to be there over any of the priests I've ever had.
I realize she can't administer sacraments, but someone like her would be so much more comforting than a priest.
I know this won't go down well here, but it was just a thought that I wanted to share.