Oh - you're in luck! You'll be able to help LOTS of people. I just know it. It is difficult to help someone if you can't relate to them, right. Struggles help us relate. I find that my struggles in life are actually what help me reach out to other people. Because I struggled as a teenager, because I've struggled with depression, and also with my faith, I do understand what you are going through. If I didn't understand, I wouldn't be able to help you. So it may not feel like it, but you can actually use the struggle you are going through in your life now to reach out and help encourage someone else later on. Everyone on this forum can only help each other because we've all gone through intense suffering. We've all felt worthless and useless. I can relate to you. Also, you may find this hard to believe, but you are helping me a lot today by letting me reach out to you. Thank you for that. I don't want you to suffer at all, but it means the world to me that you are letting me reach out to you. Especially today - like I said, I had a rough day. Encouraging you is helping me too...
You DO deserve God's blessing!! You are the child of a King!! We all deserve God's blessings, and they are wonderful when they come. When you have bad thoughts about yourself, they are lies from the devil that we accepted at some point in our life. Pray to God and ask Him to show you the lie that is at the root of your bad feelings and your lack of faith. The devil does two things: he causes problems for us, and he tries to interpret our experience for us (e.g., that happened because I'm worthless, or I'm a loser, or "nothing ever goes right for me, etc). For me, God showed me that one big root lie comes from the fact that my alcoholic father left me when I was 5, and then my mom was angry all the time and took off with boyfriends for days. That wasn't what caused the depression though. The root lie that caused the depression was that I started believing that I wasn't worth loving just the way that I am, just for existing. Recently, God showed me that I am worth loving simply because He created me. He loves me simply for being born! Just like He loves all of us - He created each one of us.
It makes perfect sense to me that you think that God loves people but not you. I used to think that about myself also. I asked someone at my church about that once and she said that it was because I was too proud. But I later learned that she was wrong, and I also left that church. The reason I thought that God loves everyone else but not me is because I believed a lie telling me that I can't possibly be loved for who I am. I felt pathetic, so I thought - how can God love someone so pathetic. But it was a lie. God is love, and He made us, and He loves us. The thing He wants most is a relationship with us. I am still learning what it means to have a relationship with God. We usually think of relationships in terms of feelings, but God is spiritual, so it isn't always based on feelings. This is why I know that even when I feel bad, God is with me, helping me, looking out for me. For instance, I strongly believe that God is moving in me and in you so that we can reach out to each other and have this conversation right now. That is how God works - he is sending us to each other by moving His spirit in us. Nothing is a coincidence...