- Sep 15, 2007
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Hi there all!
Just found this thread after all these years!
Basically I am IN LOVE with this guy who loves me but isn't in love with me and it's driving me mad.
I know you are all going to say 'be his friend' but you know I just can't - everything about me wants to be with him and the whole situation is just tearing me up.
Before I met him, I LOVED being alone - it didn't matter to me at all - but after 2 years I am so scared I'm going to be alone if I leave him.
Also we don't even really get on - all our friends think we are no good for each other and even we think its too hard to carry on - we both stick with it - he says he will never leave me and he doesn't mind me calling him my partner as long as I know that I'm not but in all honesty I don't want that - I want it all to be ok and him to love me.
He also says I am being neurotic because he tells me that I am the centre of his universe and that he has completely changed his life to have me stay in it...
I don't know - maybe I am being selfish and should just live with it - he does do everything in love for me and thinks about me all the time and even treats me like the princess he knows I can be (sorry for not sounding like the perfect Christian here but honestly I'm not - I want to be treated like I matter in his life)
What should I do? Surely God brought us together for a reason? x
Just found this thread after all these years!
Basically I am IN LOVE with this guy who loves me but isn't in love with me and it's driving me mad.
I know you are all going to say 'be his friend' but you know I just can't - everything about me wants to be with him and the whole situation is just tearing me up.
Before I met him, I LOVED being alone - it didn't matter to me at all - but after 2 years I am so scared I'm going to be alone if I leave him.
Also we don't even really get on - all our friends think we are no good for each other and even we think its too hard to carry on - we both stick with it - he says he will never leave me and he doesn't mind me calling him my partner as long as I know that I'm not but in all honesty I don't want that - I want it all to be ok and him to love me.
He also says I am being neurotic because he tells me that I am the centre of his universe and that he has completely changed his life to have me stay in it...
I don't know - maybe I am being selfish and should just live with it - he does do everything in love for me and thinks about me all the time and even treats me like the princess he knows I can be (sorry for not sounding like the perfect Christian here but honestly I'm not - I want to be treated like I matter in his life)
What should I do? Surely God brought us together for a reason? x
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