- Feb 18, 2018
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- Christian
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I've been having a great deal of perfectionism lately and it sometimes feels unbearable. I've actually always have been a perfectionist since early childhood but lately its just got out of hand. It has seeped into every area of life whether it be my relationship with God or even people, school work, my musical passion, or simple stuff like brushing my teeth. As for my relationship with God It constantly feels like I have to read the Bible and pray a certain amount to feel like I'm sufficient enough- my intention is to actually learn but I feel the real reality is to please my wanting to be perfect. When I do it I try to do it perfectly and because of this I often waste time. I've resorted to reading one verse a day and praying smaller amounts of time(for daily time with God). My dad often gets disappointed when he asks about my quiet time with God and with me not reading the Spiritual posts he makes. As for school work it sucks- I constantly feel like I have to achieve the most top grades(like having a 93 and above). I do mostly do well but its often tiring and frustrating. The only thing that isn't working is my spanish class. Being a online class I have gotten so behind in it due to laziness, depression, and perfectionistic stress. It stresses me out so much- that if I don't get it done my dad is going to get really mad at me. As a result I often get sick with nausea or a stomach ache, and have a panic attack. because of the stress I can't focus on it and forget what Im learning so I can't make any progress. I actually had to leave school early one day because I was really feeling nausea from the previous night. As for my musical passion(composing electronic music for currently 3 1/2 years now), I can rarely get stuff done(it has gotten a little bit better)- I'm always worried about making it perfect constantly tweaking and adding more. At times I just procrastinate(not laziness just part of perfectionism- this also effects other parts of my life). I know in my head that God loves me reguardless of what I do(not meaning its a freedom to do anything) and I already have salavtion as a gift. But to live it out in my heart is a real struggle for me. I don't understand how to both give myself grace but still at the same time pursue getting closer to God.