Okay guys I will be extremely honest because I want this evil thing to go away. I only talked about this thing to my Mom and she helped a lot. But now I feel like I need to tell it to someone and I would really appreciate some advices.
When I was younger, I had a bad relationship with my dad. Maybe it was his fault, maybe mine, but we didn't have good relationship that's for sure. So I think because of this I started to have same-sex attractions when I was ~13-14. The strange thing, I had attractions to older males. I started to have same-sex attrations to masculanity. It really ruined my life. I had girl crushes, but in my sexuality I had these same-sex attractions. After I realized what I have, it ruined me. I started to hate myself for it. I was fighting but it always came back. It made me depressed for years, then I started to have panic attacks and then OCD too. Now I am 21 and I am still so unsure. I know I am not homosexual, I really desapprove homosexuality, but these attrations won't go away. I think I have it because of my bad relitionship with my dad. I didn't have any older males as a compass or I don't know how to write that so it occured. I never had any girlfriends, because I had fears like: "What if I am really homosexual? I don't want to lie to her and mislead her." Although I had a girl I think I loves. But I was too afraid because of this. My relitionship with my dad is still not the best, but it's much better now. After I started living a more Christian life a few years ago I stopped being rude to him etc. I am working on having a better and btter relitionship with him.
I don't know what to do. I feel lost, and I really want to break free. Maybe you can't help but I felt like I have to write down all of these. I will pray about this every day, and I will never stop fighting. Thanks for reading all these.
When I was younger, I had a bad relationship with my dad. Maybe it was his fault, maybe mine, but we didn't have good relationship that's for sure. So I think because of this I started to have same-sex attractions when I was ~13-14. The strange thing, I had attractions to older males. I started to have same-sex attrations to masculanity. It really ruined my life. I had girl crushes, but in my sexuality I had these same-sex attractions. After I realized what I have, it ruined me. I started to hate myself for it. I was fighting but it always came back. It made me depressed for years, then I started to have panic attacks and then OCD too. Now I am 21 and I am still so unsure. I know I am not homosexual, I really desapprove homosexuality, but these attrations won't go away. I think I have it because of my bad relitionship with my dad. I didn't have any older males as a compass or I don't know how to write that so it occured. I never had any girlfriends, because I had fears like: "What if I am really homosexual? I don't want to lie to her and mislead her." Although I had a girl I think I loves. But I was too afraid because of this. My relitionship with my dad is still not the best, but it's much better now. After I started living a more Christian life a few years ago I stopped being rude to him etc. I am working on having a better and btter relitionship with him.
I don't know what to do. I feel lost, and I really want to break free. Maybe you can't help but I felt like I have to write down all of these. I will pray about this every day, and I will never stop fighting. Thanks for reading all these.