in hope of winning him over with love from Christ?
i recently heard this Christian made this statement.
thanks
Years ago, while helping out an older individual with some errand, he brought along two grandchildren. Both were very ill-behaved.
Later, he apologized for how they had carried on and explained that they had no parents, and began to tell me their story.
Their mom: his daughter, had been murdered by their dad right before their eyes.
Later, their dad took his own life.
As the man told me all this, he broke down...
He went on to relate that his other children had disowned him. Because every time his daughter had wanted to leave her violent husband, this man would go on about how that would not be right in God's eyes...
The two boys ended up in and out of trouble with law enforcement...
One day, while they were both locked up in different jails, one of them took his own life.
Such had been the impact of that "good Christian advice" all those years earlier.
A friend of mine had a sister who ended up being abused by her husband.
We both went over there, helped her pack, and got her out of there.
Took her several years to find her way back to herself after that nightmare; but she did.
Today, years later, she and her two now grown off-spring are just fine.
To this very day, her ex has yet to amount to anything resembling "useful."
May your choice this new year be not only a wise one, but one supported by people in your life who care enough to put your best interests ahead of their own.
Rom. 5: 6-8.