Hello all, i really have no idea what to do, im kinda frozen in indecision. My husband and I went through a trial separation in September after i discovered he had had an affair with the nanny (i know cliche) so after he said he would go to counseling and never do it again and he would change, i moved back home in December. Well after a few suspicions i checked his phone and he is sitll cheating on me, in fact it is with multiple women. i am devastated. i don't know what to do. i do know that this marriage is over since he messed up this 2nd chance i gave him. yet i dont want to confront him yet. this is going to sound so stupid but we have 4 boys and 1 daughter. we have travel plans already set for Disney wold this summer and i dont want to ruin that for them. also he is helping me get my finances/credit score back up so right now i dont have the finances or score to get a place on my own. he said i would be debt free in a few months. so im thinking can i stay with him and act like everything is fine for a few months for my kids sake and so i can prepare.