McScribe,
Honestly, your complaints seem to be that men don't feel "good" about feminism and don't feel like they can talk about not feeling good. I'm asking, reasonably, why they don't feel "good". You wanted to discuss the ideology of certain feminists -- and I'm okay with that, buy I'm not sure why their (minority) views matter so much to you. That's not what feminism looks like -- so even if they wanted all men dead, it certainly hasn't come true AND the vast majority of feminists hold no such views.
So, what's your real beef with feminism, in practice today?
Abortion, which of course the man gets no choice. -- If he doesn't want the child and she does. . . he has to pay up child support. If he wants the child and she doesn't she has the child summarily executed for being inconvient.
My radical solution is to just make abortion illegal.
Removal of man's presumption of innocence in when the crime is in regards to any act of violence against a woman. --See Violence against Women act
Constant lobbying for more education dollars despite the fact that women are the clear majority in Univerisities.
Constant lobbying for more non-pregnancy related health care dollars despite the fact that women live far longer then men on average and command the vast majority of the health care dollars already.
Applauding acts of violence against men see and defending any woman who claims to be abused no matter what the evidence says to the contrary.
In a rape case her name is a big secret but his face and name are all over the paper.
The constant and consistent blaming of men and only men for single motherhood.
Taking any criticism of their movement, their tatics, or their views and accusing anyone who disagrees with any of these as "hating women". Or supporting the mythical patriarchy. Which is exactly what you are doing, you are very well versed in their tatics.
Claiming to want equality but never pushing for equal responsibilities. I don't see any women out there pushing for women to be responsible for signing up for selective service. . .
No fault divorce which allows a woman to divorce a man for any reason she feels like, take the house, take the kids, and often force him to pay alimony and child support.
Of course women find divorce courts to be fair, they get everything thats important!!