My faith and my health.
I get migraines. A lot. 15+ a month. Usually closer to 20-23 a month. (Praise God they've been better the past couple weeks though! ) Sometimes the pain literally gets so bad I've had to go to the ER.
I'm on some meds that can get rid of it when I have one, however, as you can imagine you cannot take this stuff when you're either pregnant or nursing. They don't know for sure if it will hurt the baby, but there is a chance. From friends that also suffer from migraines (though much less often, thankfully), there aren't any alternatives other than just going through it. There is no preventative I've found to help, no natural help I've found, or anything of the like.
So, let's say I do get married. We aren't supposed to use birth control of any kind. And I don't think I trust NFP enough to bet my baby's health on it. That means I would have to stop taking my migraine meds until I knew that I couldn't get pregnant. 20-ish years?
But I also know that if I stopped treating my headaches, I won't be able to handle the pain. Which means that I honestly don't think I would be alive at the end of the 20 years.
So, what's the choice here? Either use contraception and (apparently) condemn my soul, not have a sexual relationship with my husband (yea...riiight), or suffer through the headaches until it gets so bad I can't take it anymore (and, consequently, not be a very good wife/mother)?
Thoughts?
I get migraines. A lot. 15+ a month. Usually closer to 20-23 a month. (Praise God they've been better the past couple weeks though! ) Sometimes the pain literally gets so bad I've had to go to the ER.
I'm on some meds that can get rid of it when I have one, however, as you can imagine you cannot take this stuff when you're either pregnant or nursing. They don't know for sure if it will hurt the baby, but there is a chance. From friends that also suffer from migraines (though much less often, thankfully), there aren't any alternatives other than just going through it. There is no preventative I've found to help, no natural help I've found, or anything of the like.
So, let's say I do get married. We aren't supposed to use birth control of any kind. And I don't think I trust NFP enough to bet my baby's health on it. That means I would have to stop taking my migraine meds until I knew that I couldn't get pregnant. 20-ish years?
But I also know that if I stopped treating my headaches, I won't be able to handle the pain. Which means that I honestly don't think I would be alive at the end of the 20 years.
So, what's the choice here? Either use contraception and (apparently) condemn my soul, not have a sexual relationship with my husband (yea...riiight), or suffer through the headaches until it gets so bad I can't take it anymore (and, consequently, not be a very good wife/mother)?
Thoughts?