- Apr 25, 2002
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Today was a very frustrating day for me for various reasons, and I let my patience wear thin. At one point when my patience was almost out my 3 year old son came up and swatted me on the leg with a broken shoe string (which stung pretty good), in anger I swatted back (not hard) but I shouldn't have...
This made my day even worse, his tears went away pretty quickly since his feelings were hurt more than anything else, but the words from his mouth "daddy, you hurt my heart" still ring in my ears...I can't go into it all, but it's a continual struggle for me to break a cycle that existed between me and my father and he and his father...etc. I could really use your prayers.
I sat down and wrote these words, then spent the next 30 minutes on my knees talking to my Heavenly Father...it's is reconciled with Him I know, but please pray with me for the strength to break a cycle...
God, how do I get forgiveness from my three year old?
It means absolutely everything to me,
The warmness of his smile uncorrupted by trepidation
Is what I live to see.
Yet today, general frustration overtook me
Just before he unexpectedly swatted my bare skin
And before I could again think rationally
I lashed out in kind to him.
Redness on his tummy,
In the shape of my backhand.
It was not equal to the deed,
And his eyes clearly didnt understand.
And the stinging of my leg
Already beginning to subside
Immediately paled
To the pain I felt inside.
I saw my fathers anger
In the redness that was there.
I again saw the hands around my throat.
The angry face from my nightmares.
It took only seconds for realization
To creep into my sons purity.
That what his father had just done
Was very painful indeed.
But taking him up in my arms
Did not stem the tide
It had gone beyond the redness now
The tears reflected what was inside.
Daddy could not take it back.
Could not make him understand.
Cannot explain why he needs forgiveness
From this one innocent little man.
Will he do as I
And one day scream he hates me.
Or can I explain forgiveness
To a child who is only three?
Thanks ahead of time.
This made my day even worse, his tears went away pretty quickly since his feelings were hurt more than anything else, but the words from his mouth "daddy, you hurt my heart" still ring in my ears...I can't go into it all, but it's a continual struggle for me to break a cycle that existed between me and my father and he and his father...etc. I could really use your prayers.
I sat down and wrote these words, then spent the next 30 minutes on my knees talking to my Heavenly Father...it's is reconciled with Him I know, but please pray with me for the strength to break a cycle...
God, how do I get forgiveness from my three year old?
It means absolutely everything to me,
The warmness of his smile uncorrupted by trepidation
Is what I live to see.
Yet today, general frustration overtook me
Just before he unexpectedly swatted my bare skin
And before I could again think rationally
I lashed out in kind to him.
Redness on his tummy,
In the shape of my backhand.
It was not equal to the deed,
And his eyes clearly didnt understand.
And the stinging of my leg
Already beginning to subside
Immediately paled
To the pain I felt inside.
I saw my fathers anger
In the redness that was there.
I again saw the hands around my throat.
The angry face from my nightmares.
It took only seconds for realization
To creep into my sons purity.
That what his father had just done
Was very painful indeed.
But taking him up in my arms
Did not stem the tide
It had gone beyond the redness now
The tears reflected what was inside.
Daddy could not take it back.
Could not make him understand.
Cannot explain why he needs forgiveness
From this one innocent little man.
Will he do as I
And one day scream he hates me.
Or can I explain forgiveness
To a child who is only three?
Thanks ahead of time.