- Aug 1, 2017
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Because the Lord hasn’t told me yet. Growing up, I’ve always been jealous for two- my God and my future husband. It is the Lord who brings me before the man and I will have no other boyfriend before him. I actually did not commit suicide at the age of 15 because I believed God has someone for me and it would be unfair to my future husband and I would never get to know his love. I will never stop believing in that.
While I was living in the United States, I had to hilariously escape and hide from my friends who tried to set me up, my colleagues, and church people who wanted me to marry their son. I craved to be just with my Lord. I would run to Him and see that I fall in no one's eyes. There was one guy whom God was pursuing and I didn’t wanted to come in between because I’m also jealous for the Lord. I wanted the Lord to have this guy’s heart completely for Himself more than anything. It was a test.
I will not go the worldly way. I will not date for my own benefits but the Lord’s. If it’s not rooted in truth, it won’t lead to true love. I know what I’m made for, what God has in store for me, and what He is able to do. I work for Him and He works on my behalf according to His plans and purposes for me. My goals are mainly spiritual. I'm already bearing fruit and content in a loving relationship with Christ that I adore. I desire marriage for His glory.
There must be godly intervention, and not just me and the guy trying to make dating happen or work out for us because of our wants and needs. I look for confirmation and understanding from at least these three witnesses before I want to date someone:
> Inner witness of the Holy Spirt confirming that it is indeed acceptable to the Lord,
> God’s leading through the scripture confirming how it is honoring to the Lord,
> Physical circumstances and signs that reveal God’s hand in it, confirming His will.
While I was living in the United States, I had to hilariously escape and hide from my friends who tried to set me up, my colleagues, and church people who wanted me to marry their son. I craved to be just with my Lord. I would run to Him and see that I fall in no one's eyes. There was one guy whom God was pursuing and I didn’t wanted to come in between because I’m also jealous for the Lord. I wanted the Lord to have this guy’s heart completely for Himself more than anything. It was a test.
I will not go the worldly way. I will not date for my own benefits but the Lord’s. If it’s not rooted in truth, it won’t lead to true love. I know what I’m made for, what God has in store for me, and what He is able to do. I work for Him and He works on my behalf according to His plans and purposes for me. My goals are mainly spiritual. I'm already bearing fruit and content in a loving relationship with Christ that I adore. I desire marriage for His glory.
There must be godly intervention, and not just me and the guy trying to make dating happen or work out for us because of our wants and needs. I look for confirmation and understanding from at least these three witnesses before I want to date someone:
> Inner witness of the Holy Spirt confirming that it is indeed acceptable to the Lord,
> God’s leading through the scripture confirming how it is honoring to the Lord,
> Physical circumstances and signs that reveal God’s hand in it, confirming His will.
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