I am a lifelong Methodist that was saved/baptized at the age of eleven. My wife was in the United Churches of Christ until she moved and could not find a UCC church. We have both attended the same Methodist church until we moved a few years ago and after we moved we could not find any church (sampling of various Protestant faiths for those curious) that we both enjoyed.
Lately we have started seriously talking about the Orthodox faith. I realize that this forum is for laity and I should contact a priest for better answers. Having said that, I was hoping that those of you in the faith can possibly answer some questions for me. We have researched online a fairly good deal but I'd prefer some answers from real people.
Welcome to TAW, and may God bless you both abundantly! Let me go ahead and say that I'm simply a very new catechumen and I am
not the source for answers, but I'd like to go ahead and answer a little on what I do know, and hope my friends here aren't too harsh on me if I get something wrong.
1. As noted in the topic title, I am a diabetic. I know the Orthodox have fairly extensive fasting periods and due to my health I can not really fast to that degree and maintain my blood sugar at a healthy level. As a Methodist I have compensated during Lent by giving up something I enjoy, be it a particular food or activity. Is this sufficient for the Orthodox?
Zhilan answered this perfectly. Your Priest will work something out with you for the benefit of your own soul. The fast isn't some stern stoic set-in-stone dogma to follow robotically like a Pharisee, it's for spiritual growth, and you can rest assured the Priest will work with you.
2. As I previously stated, I was baptized about nineteen years ago. I know there are two forms of baptism (baptism and Chrismation) in the Orthodox church. Do I need to be baptised (and fully submerged three times) a second time as well as taking the Chrismation for fully entry into the faith? I have heard this may not be the case for all Western parishes but I am not sure.
I'm 90% sure you will be baptized them chrismated. I told Father Mark that I had been baptized with the church of Christ, and he said he guarantees the Bishop will say 'Baptize him!'
I look forward to this though, as it's a more... complete way to join the Church, at least that's how I see it.
3. Do men and women stand separate from one another during service (men to one side, women to another)?
I believe that depends on the parish, or maybe even the jurisdiction. In my ACROD parish, there is no separation.
4. I understand that you stand during most of the service. Is it considered improper to sit for at least some portion of a service? In point of fact, are there any pews available to use during a service?
There are pews in my ACROD parish. Rarely-used, but they're there. This depends on the parish too.
5. Could you help explain the actual order of service? I have read about Matins and Vespers and I am trying to understand it in simple (no disrespect intended here) Protestant terms.
Is there a correlating Sunday School and then acual service or...?
I actually can't do much good here, as I couldn't give a credible explanation. All I can tell you is that you can expect a nice good coffee hour after Sunday's liturgy, but not after Matins or Vespers. I'm sure someone else will touch base with you on this one.
6. I know the liturgy calls for lengthy prayers and singing but is there an actual sermon? And I realize this varies but are the services (in America) in English or Greek/Russian/Slavic?
Yes, you can expect a sermon, but in Orthodoxy the service isn't built around the sermon like we've grown to expect in Protestantism. I've never seen one last more than 10 minutes, but they're definitely fruitful and are undoubtedly needed. And again, in my ACROD parish, it's 90% English, as sometimes on special feast days there's some Slavic/Greek tossed in.
7. Are there actual hymns that are sung while in service? I cannot express to you how important music is for my personal worship and how the hymns of Charles Wesley from my Methodist upbringing have always left me feeling closer to God. I can not imagine that hymns from Wesley would be used in a service and to be honest that would be a considerable sacrifice on my part to lose them.
Well, there definitely isn't anything sung that is really comparable with Protestant hymns. There are chanted/sung responses and things of that nature during every service, but... no chorus, or anything of that nature. Go on Google and see if you can find some orthodox hymns.
8. I am not an iconoclast but the veneration of the saints confuses me. I understand the belief is that the living on Earth are the living in Heaven and that one prays to the saints to ask for intercession or aid. How exactly are the saints capable of listening to those entreaties?
This one got me too, at first. I remember coming here to TAW and asking, "Would you need to pray vocally for the Saints to hear?" Someone told me "How loud would you have to pray for Heaven to hear?" When you think of it that way, it seems kind of silly, wouldn't you think? Someone else mentioned that they're in a place beyond space or time, would vibrating your vocal chords to produce sound have any actual meaning if it's only by the grace of God that they hear our prayers asking intercession? The Saints are by no means omnipresent, but the grace of God is much bigger than the box we try and place it in, I would say. We can chalk this up to mystery, kind of like Heaven. Our senses are required to experience earthly things, would we need a body or senses to experience Heavenly things? I wouldn't think so, but, who knows?
Part of the beauty of Orthodoxy is in it's never confessed all the answers are known, but, who am I to argue with the teachings of the Desert Fathers, or contend with the faith millions of martyrs have died for?
9. Does the Patriarch have any "infallibality" powers? Does the Patriarch of Constantinople have a higher authority than the Patriarch of the other Orthodox faiths?
This one's outta my league. Not gonna touch it.
10. I must confess that the idea of attending a "High Church" service is something I feel anxious about attending. I remember how uncomfortable I was as a child when the reciting of the Apostles Creed, the Doxology, etc. in the Methodist Church was done around me and others noted that I did not follow along with it. I have heard that some Orthodox parishes are closed to non-specific ethnic peoples and that coupled with a foreign service has me, well, concerned.
I can't really relate to this one, myself. I remember wondering where those things
were in church. I can't really touch base on this one, either.
I appreciate any answers to my questions and if there is any sort of "tips" you can give to a newbie on their first attendance of an Orthodox service please share. My wife and I both want a more participatory service and we both are feeling drawn to the Orthodox faith. Please forgive any of my questions that seem insulting or ignorant.
I know I'm only a catechumen, but I really do love to see people coming to TAW and inquiring. My tips to you would be, wear comfy shoes, don't force anything or follow along in a book, just soak it all in, if you'll be doing any reading ask the Priest about it first, and never hesitate to ask questions or feel intimidated by the thought. You're expected to come across stumbling blocks and everyone will want to help you in some way or another.
Above all, don't rely on reading alone, but really 'marinate' in the services and soak it all in. Focus on the prayers, make them your own, and when in doubt, ask Father.
So glad to have you here. PM me if you have any questions about CF in general.