Divide
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I don't want to get into a "who has it worse" debate as I'll concede that short men may end up being rejected more often, but whenever the topic of height in dating comes up I have to wonder where these women are who are supposedly flocking to the tall men. I'm over 6' and struggle to get dates, both in real life and using apps. So even if women are judging men based their height, they are very definitely also using other criteria.
You are right, women look at the whole package and not only height. It is true that taller men can almost take their pick of women But I see plenty of short guys with nice looking women. So I think it is possible that some men have other self esteem issues besides height? What those men don't realize is that you only have to be taller than her in spirit for her to be attracted to you.
Some women may be mean to short guys, but in the long run...so what? That is them being short in spirit! (She just did me a favor by rejecting me, Lol!) There's about 3 or 4 Billion other girls in the world. Don't let a few rejections get you down. I've always been on the tall slender side but I have had plenty of rejection in my life too and it never slowed me down.
One time when me and my brother was young and was going out to get girls phone numbers one night, we decided to have some fun with it so we made a bet on who could get rejected more times than the other! We bet like $20 but that was a lot of money back then, lol. I wanted to win and had many lines so took off at it. And I was on the OSU campus on friday night, people everywhere. And I see a real cutie coming down the sidewalk so we meet I gave her a line, a compliment and asked for her number real quick...and whoa she got snotty with me in instant rejection. But I was on a mission and didn't care, I didn't even break stride. I just glanced at her real quick and said ok bye then, and I kept walking. I didn't get 1/2 block before I notice she is chasing me down and introducing herself!
What happened there? How did she change her mind so quick? Easy, my spirit was taller than her spirit. so instantly she thought might not want to let that one get away! Maybe I looked like I had more important things to do than her.
It's more than height in bodily stature.
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