I was praying to get married for many many years. I was praying to God to give me a husband and a family. But God gave it to all my friends. Husbands and children. I still keep their marriage's invitations, have pictures of their babies. When I see them I am crying. All I ask is what I 've done wrong. I spoke with them for their advices, I asked pastors their opinion. Their answers where different but also same. You are not ready. Your time has not come yet. Your past relationships delayed your blessings. Friends of mine argues with me when I say how sad and lonely I feel. They never been through this but this is how married treat singles and as years passing by it is getting worse.
Family and friends think that something wrong is going with me. They keep pushing to find someone because I am getting old. For years I was crying almost every night asking God to give me strenght and hope when loneliness was drowning me.
One night a thought came to my head, why are you asking God to help you? You ask His help all of this years and nothing happend. That night changed my life. I stopped praying. I stopped hope. I stopped waiting for a miracle. God doesn't care for me. He wants to see me in pain, loneliness and shame. I don't believe in Him anymore. I don't want to. I don't find a reason to do it. I stop calling my friends and share my thoughts. Many of them didnt care if I have days to call. They have families. They hung out with other families. I am nothing to their eyes. I am single. I don't understand them because I am single.
This is my life and I can't change it. No one cares, no one will ever love me. I am getting used to this new reality in my life and I am crying less now. Hugging my new revelation gives me more comford. But inside me I became dead cold. I don't feel anything. I see myself becoming cruel and bitter. You gonna ask me why I write all these? Because I haven't heard my voice for a long time. I have no one to listen to me. Maybe someone here will do and understand how really feel. Sorry for any mistakes in english language.
Family and friends think that something wrong is going with me. They keep pushing to find someone because I am getting old. For years I was crying almost every night asking God to give me strenght and hope when loneliness was drowning me.
One night a thought came to my head, why are you asking God to help you? You ask His help all of this years and nothing happend. That night changed my life. I stopped praying. I stopped hope. I stopped waiting for a miracle. God doesn't care for me. He wants to see me in pain, loneliness and shame. I don't believe in Him anymore. I don't want to. I don't find a reason to do it. I stop calling my friends and share my thoughts. Many of them didnt care if I have days to call. They have families. They hung out with other families. I am nothing to their eyes. I am single. I don't understand them because I am single.
This is my life and I can't change it. No one cares, no one will ever love me. I am getting used to this new reality in my life and I am crying less now. Hugging my new revelation gives me more comford. But inside me I became dead cold. I don't feel anything. I see myself becoming cruel and bitter. You gonna ask me why I write all these? Because I haven't heard my voice for a long time. I have no one to listen to me. Maybe someone here will do and understand how really feel. Sorry for any mistakes in english language.