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Our pastor defines sin as simply "missing the mark; falling short of perfection." It seems to me that mistakes would fall under this category, but as my husband and I were discussing earlier, it seems like willfulness should play some role. You make a mistake by accident. You sin on purpose. You know right from wrong, and deliberately choose to do wrong.
Pastor says that animals, babies, and people with severe mental challenges do sin, because they do things they shouldn't, and that's all sin is. They will be held accountable only as far as they are capable of recognizing and repenting of that sin. For babies and animals, that is not at all. For gradually older children, and for people with mental challenges, it depends on the degree of their capacity.
What prompted our discussion was this: I noted to my husband that today is the 34th anniversary of the day I made the biggest mistake of my life. He knew right away that I was referring to marrying my first husband, and he observed, "But that sin was atoned for."
Interesting choice of words.
My first husband was, and remains to this day, an alcoholic and drug addict. He physically abused me and eventually left me for another woman, so our divorce is biblical on the grounds of adultery. If anyone thinks the divorce and my subsequent remarriage are sins, you're welcome to think so, but I really don't want to debate it. What I'm wondering is, did I sin by marrying my ex in the first place? It was definitely a mistake, but is a mistake the same thing as a sin?
Pastor says that animals, babies, and people with severe mental challenges do sin, because they do things they shouldn't, and that's all sin is. They will be held accountable only as far as they are capable of recognizing and repenting of that sin. For babies and animals, that is not at all. For gradually older children, and for people with mental challenges, it depends on the degree of their capacity.
What prompted our discussion was this: I noted to my husband that today is the 34th anniversary of the day I made the biggest mistake of my life. He knew right away that I was referring to marrying my first husband, and he observed, "But that sin was atoned for."
Interesting choice of words.
My first husband was, and remains to this day, an alcoholic and drug addict. He physically abused me and eventually left me for another woman, so our divorce is biblical on the grounds of adultery. If anyone thinks the divorce and my subsequent remarriage are sins, you're welcome to think so, but I really don't want to debate it. What I'm wondering is, did I sin by marrying my ex in the first place? It was definitely a mistake, but is a mistake the same thing as a sin?