Greeter,
How refreshing your questions are. They make the time spent here worth it.
Andrew and Droobie have explained things pretty clearly. But your question of "how do you build your faith?" struck me as something I wanted to have a part in answering.
Andrew is very corrrect in saying "get away from all those who would say you're supposed to be sick, etc."
Please bare with me as I share what I went through and how God has taught me to grow my faith.
A few yrs ago, I was employed full time in a ministry orginization. I had worked there for 8 1/2 yrs.
For about the last 3 or 4 yrs of employment I began to suffer with extreme monthly bleeding. Then, it reached a point where the bleeding never stopped. I could closely relate to the woman with the issue of blood. For those who think that that was impossible, trust me, it's not. I bled continuously, everyday, all month, for months. And frequent hemmorging.
I was under doctors care, but nothing they did would stop the bleeding. They first put me on birth control, which helped but the bleeding did not stop. Then they increased the dosage of the birth control and that caused other problems. So they put me on some other stuff, which helped but still did not stop it. Then they tried the shots. It still never stopped.
At one point, when they took my blood count the nurse paled and rushed out of the room. When she came back she said she had to call the doctor because the count was so low. The doctor asked her if they were giving me a transfusion, and she said, "no, she walked in here". It was God's grace that I was functioning in that condition.
It was during that time that I began to seek God ardently for my healing. My job did not have adequate medical coverage for me to have surgery. Nor, would I continue to get paid for the time off work. So in my opinion, I had no choice. I had nobody paying my bills but me.
God began to show that my faith needed to be built and I began to seek out how to do that.
I began to listen to Kenneth Copeland. Week after week I would listen and I'd have questions. Much like the questions I've seen on this site. Sometimes I would not understand, and I'd fume over it for the week. When I'd listen the next week what I'd fumed over would be answered.
Then the light came on. I began to understand.
God showed me that my thoughts and my words were what was causing my lack of faith in that area of my life. He showed me that was the same problem with my finances as well. The reason for my sickness, I believe was a demonic attack. And I believe that because no medical method would work. (my own opinion)
So, I consciously began to change my words. It caused quite a stir amongst the christians I worked with. When I would share what God was showing me and the little bit of improvement I had seen as a result I was pelted with ridicule. I was told that God gave me a brain for a purpose and He expected me to use wisdom.
I was told all kinds of stories about how this person or that person had stood in faith and died anyway. And along with all the physical strength that was flowing out of my body my spiritual strength began to flow out too.
I fought discouragement. One time, I literally did, run out of the room because of all the words of discouragement coming at me from their mouths. I understand they meant well. But they did not understand that "death and life are in the power of the tongue". And with their tongue they were speaking death to me.
Through some other circumstances I stopped working for that ministry. The Lord led me to the job I'm currently at where I work mainly with non-christians who are kinder than the christians I worked with. What the enemy had intended for evil, God turned to good.
Anyway, to continue, the health situation persisted but GREATLY improved when I got away from all the negative talk. At one point I asked God for a scripture that I could claim for my situation and He gave me Romans 8:2-4 "For the law of the Spirit of life in Christ Jesus hath made me free from the law of sin and death. For what the law could not do, in that it was weak through the flesh, God sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful flesh, and for sin, condemned sin in the flesh: that the righteousness of the law might be fulfilled in us, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit."
That scripture took on a whole different meaning for me after that. When I called the dr the next day after God gave me that scripture, I was telling the nurse what had been happening with my body over the weekend. It had been a particularlly bad weekend. The words out of her mouth stunned me. She said, "well, that's the law". I said, "excuse me?" She said, "oh, I mean that's the way things work as you get older". Hmm, I thought her choice of words quite interesting.
I wish I could say that my faith grew to the point that my body manifested miraculous healing. But it did not. I don't condemn myself in that and neither does God. Satan is the one who comes alongside and condemns us. he wanted me to become discouraged and think that I was condemned by others for not having enough faith. In reality, it was not them condemning it was him. We need to understand that when we start feeling like we're failing. It's not in our strength that we do anything, it's in His strength.
I did see marked improvement in my stanima through this ordeal. In Oct of last year when I went to my doctor, who is a "faith" believer, she said that she felt it was time to have it medically taken care of. There were many cysts covering my uterous and tubes. I was anemic. I was tired. I was tired emotionally and physically. I was tired of the enemy beating me up and interferring with my life.
My current job paid for everything. I continued to get a paychek the whole six weeks I was off work. Before I went into surgery at the end of January, I infomed the devil he had not won. I informed him that as a result of his attack on my body that everyone who touched my body was claimed for the kingdom of God. That meant that every surgion, the nurses, the anestheologist, whoever, was claimed for the kingdom. I won.
Now I know that you're freinds can't just have surgery and make it all go away. But they can change their words and their company. You're friend has made a start by saying he is healed, because he is. I don't know how long each person will have to stand in faith. It may be years. It may be the rest of their lives. But at least they can go, standing in faith. Not allowing the devil to defeat them mentally or physically.
As for my health now . . . it's quite good. I have a lot more energy and am looking forward to more. Like Andrew, compared to the rest of the people around me I very, rarely am sick. And when I am it does not last as long as others around me nor is it as severe. I can't remember the last time I had an upset stomach. I don't get headaches very often either. I use to have migranes so bad that I would find myself heaving into that chair in the bathroom.
So, to try and make this long story short, in order to make your faith grow you have to feed it. Feed it with the Word of God. Feed it by hanging around people who are trying to grow their faith too. Feed it by speaking only what God says. Such as: my body is doing this but the Word of God says, I'm healed. With me, I used my scripture by saying, "body, according to the law of sin and death what is happening right now I have to put up with. But God's Word says I am free from that law. Body, you must line up with the Word of God." You may feel stupid at first (that's the devil lying to you), but keep at it. You'll be amazed at how much stronger you'll begin to feel.
In order to make lack of faith die, we must starve it. Stop feeding on what the world says about your situation. Stop feeding with others who listen to what the world says about your situation and want to tell you all about it. Don't listen to anyone who tells you about their friends, cousins, friend who tried all that and died anyway. You'll be amazed at all the negative horror stories that seem to come out of the woodwork when you start trying to grow in any area, not just faith.
Most of all. . .hold on. Don't give up. No matter what your experiencing in the physical it does not change what God says. That does not mean you deny what's going on physically. You do deny it's right to be there though. You take care of what you have to take care of. But keep speaking what God says.
Praise and thank God that he's given you His Word as a sword to fight all those principalities in the heavenlies. Rejoice that you are saved and that the enemy is under your feet. Dance before the Lord and imagine yourself dancing on the head of the enemy. It works.
Your joy will increase. And the word says "the joy of The Lord is your strength". It's hard work standing in faith. You need all the strength you can get.
Note to others: as for grandpa living to 90 it was most likely in his genes to live to 120. And, like Andrew said, God's mercy, giving grandpa more time to repent.
And for vacinations working, again, God's mercy on people. Man could not have found the vacinations without God giving them the power to do so.
I don't know what the others believe, but I do not believe it's wrong to go to a doctor unless, you know that God has specifically told you not to. If you wonder if you should see a doctor, do it.
Abraham--dead.
Mary and Martha--dead
Lazarus--dead
St John--dead
Where is it written these people died of disease? The 1st time Lazarus died it was disease, but where does it say it the 2nd time? Old age is not disease.
Be blessed,