I think I've looked up just about every Church I could find in my city and visited the "best" ones from that list but I haven't been truly satisfied with any, but just content with a few. I'm under no illusions that Church is perfect or there is a perfect Church out there so should I just settle with content rather that true satisfaction?
I'm not just taking myself into account with this decision, I want it to be the right one for my family. We've just withdrawn ourselves from a Church my Wife has been a part of for over a decade and my stepdaughter grew up in it but now it is dying and on the verge of being dead (I was the only man left other than the Pastor. It's being run in an unbiblical way and the Pastor and his Wife are completely out of it, not there, backslidden.). This has all had a negative effect on us spiritually and especially my stepdaughter who's become very apathetic to any Church and the Christian walk after recent experiences.
So should I just go with the "best" local Church I can find? Even if I disagree with secondary issues on the SOF and it doesn't quite have the fire I want? We've been attending Calvary Chapel recently and although I like the Bible teaching and worship on occasion there will be whole sermons I disagree with (like yesterday, pre-trib rapture). My Wife and I want to have fellowship with brothers and sisters and I want my stepdaughter to be in a youth group and have Christian friends, to grow in faith. I want my son to grow up in a solid, Jesus loving Church (he's only 4 months old now but still).
I'm not just taking myself into account with this decision, I want it to be the right one for my family. We've just withdrawn ourselves from a Church my Wife has been a part of for over a decade and my stepdaughter grew up in it but now it is dying and on the verge of being dead (I was the only man left other than the Pastor. It's being run in an unbiblical way and the Pastor and his Wife are completely out of it, not there, backslidden.). This has all had a negative effect on us spiritually and especially my stepdaughter who's become very apathetic to any Church and the Christian walk after recent experiences.
So should I just go with the "best" local Church I can find? Even if I disagree with secondary issues on the SOF and it doesn't quite have the fire I want? We've been attending Calvary Chapel recently and although I like the Bible teaching and worship on occasion there will be whole sermons I disagree with (like yesterday, pre-trib rapture). My Wife and I want to have fellowship with brothers and sisters and I want my stepdaughter to be in a youth group and have Christian friends, to grow in faith. I want my son to grow up in a solid, Jesus loving Church (he's only 4 months old now but still).